Is marriage a good investment?

Is marriage a good investment?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think reddit's dead bedrooms forums is a good place for unbiased marriage advice
      yes, marriage is a good investment. statistically married men make more money than unmarried and divorced.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think ambitious men seek marriage more. If you were content with a mediocre life you wouldn't be pushing hard for marriage + family. And having people to support pushes you even harder.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        doesn't that mean men with money are more likely to marry
        and not that marrying makes you more money

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Very likely the case. Something like 50% of workers age 28 and younger share an apartment with a roommate or live with a parent. You can’t support a spouse if you can’t support yourself. Our deliberately moronic media ignores the issue of low wages in America and runs headlines like “Home ownership not a priority for millennials/young people just don’t want to get married/Why are fewer young people having sex?/etc.”

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      lmfao, i cant imagine being such a fricking weak cuck to not only allow my wife to act like this, but then b***h and complain about it on, of all places, reddit. Shows how much of an absolute cuck these 'men' are. They should cut their dicks off and become troons for acting this weak

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Pretty much. If my wife denied me sex this long, I would leave or cheat, maybe both. Imagine taking shit from a woman the absolute state of these homosexuals.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          but what if you are a nofapper and enjoy the energy gains from months and months of no sex?????what if you aren't an addicted coombrain????

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Do you have children? Nothing buck breaks men more than children, and women know this.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Pretty much. If my wife denied me sex this long, I would leave or cheat, maybe both. Imagine taking shit from a woman the absolute state of these homosexuals.

        I've also noticed the worst women end up with the softest/nicest guys, because they're the only ones who will tolerate the serious bullshit. Dude just sat there hiding his discontent while he went sexless for 5 years while paying for her life.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          thats literally it. These vile husks of women are only with the most beta simps in the population because they'll tolerate it.
          I dated a married woman for almost 4 years who treated her husband like actual garbage. I didnt put up with that behavior and she knew her place with me, but knowing she had that cuck at home she'd act out of term every now and then. The sex was fantastic with her and he was a shell of a human being. I didnt mind encouraging the cheating bc their relationship was sexless for prob 13+ years and he was beyond broken. I cant imagine existing as a man like that.
          I ended that relationship by having her sent to jail for breaking into my apartment and trashing the place because I told her I wasnt going to marry her after she finalized the divorce, then had the audacity to try to get me to drop the charges lmao
          Through all that and even knowing she was cheating on him with me, he did nothing. Thats the kind of simps these redditards are
          Fricking women dude, like literally all you have to do

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            forgot to finish this,
            all you have to do is maintain strength and put them in their fricking place because no matter what theyre going to act like children from time to time. The more you allow the more often theyll push the boundry and youll have a bigger mess to deal with

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Women are constantly testing for weakness. You only have to fail the test once.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Through all that and even knowing she was cheating on him with me, he did nothing.
            and what do you suggest then? should he go mental and start fricking up things (and his life) over some stupid prostitute ? LMAO. did they have children? if not? who cares about anything that happens in your "relationship" its not fruitful anyway.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They had no children together. For that dude, there was nothing he could do at that point, it was like looking at a patient in a coma at the hospital. No matter what, hed respond with 'yes honey' like this meme.
            Theres nothing you can do at that point, he was beyond broken, a literal husk/shell of a man who only existed and nothing else. He was also like 20 years older than her and shes pushing 40 now with no kids as it is so it didnt matter at all
            Its literally his fault for allowing that behavior to continue to take him to that level. Thats the level of simping these redditards are nearing

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            interesting. well if there's no children it literally doesn't matter. the relationship he had with that woman was unfruitful anyway. so who cares if she goes frick somewhere else. however he was weird for not just telling her to frick off. that is true. but yeah. its all ego-based lust and "love" it's not really anyway.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >bragging about knowingly fricking a married woman with emotional issues
            Wow dude you're so cool.

            Also for anyone thinking a strong marriage doesn't help with finances, look at what Warren Buffet has to say about that:

            https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/14/warren-buffett-says-the-most-important-decision-is-who-you-marry.html

            This. Just because some people frick up buying a house, buying a car, in school, or in their marriage choices doesn't mean the act itself is a mistake. Fricking sour grapes ITT

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            im not bragging, this is just personal evidence of witnessing the level of simping these guys that OP are screencapping showing how real these situations are, but its so easy to not allow a relationship to get to this point unless youre an absolutely weak man

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you are literally part of the problem imagine hitting post in this and thinking it makes you look good

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Troons actually get laid

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Troons have bbc frick their nuvegana

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is how people die falling off cliffs trying to take an instagram picture
      of course if this wasnt reddit we were talking about

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      demoralization thread. kys OP

      marriage is the best investment you will ever make in your life granted you find a girl who you love and loves you back. stay strong kings

      God I love my wife

      based

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yeah based anon I had to stop myself after 2 pics because this shit is filth for your brain stay strong anon

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    weird. how can you think like that about the mother of your chilrden? I wouldn't be able.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You wouldn't get it until you're in a similar situation. Life is not a Disney movie. Most couples are dealing with serious animosity and just put on a good face for the public.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i know i have a gf. but if we have a child i have to respect her forever, despite what my dumb ego keeps wisperhing in my head.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How do you get to the point where you both being so irate with each other's presence?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i know i have a gf. but if we have a child i have to respect her forever, despite what my dumb ego keeps wisperhing in my head.

          "Familiarity breeds contempt". With that said there's still a ton of couples out there who work well together. It's a numbers and probability game. People see good couples and assume that's possible for everyone, it isn't.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      db?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        homie the whole thread is about the same thing, Dead Bedroom.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >what he heard: you don't make enough money, we don't live in NYC or California
      >what she actually said: we'll never know, he clearly wasn't listening
      My guess is HE is worried about money and where they live, so he heard what he wanted to hear from his wife. Probably she's worried about how stressed he is about money and where they live and he has no chill about any of it. No real person says "I would love you if we lived in NYC or California." One is a large city with lots of problems, the other is an entire state with multiple climates, let alone cities. It's literally apples and mammals. Not comparable categories.

      >I want you to chill out about money
      Oh, I would need a salary of 200k to do that, so you only love my money!
      >what, no, I want you to relax a bit
      Oh, to relax I'd have to live in either NYC or like California, mythical places of legend I could never afford! I knew you only love my money?
      >BSOD, walks away upset and confused

      A real money obsessed woman would complain that they house is too small, or that all the credit cards are maxed out. She'd have a closet full of bags and clothes she wore once and always be buying more. That man isn't looking at reality and needs to read Sadly, Porn.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Probably she's worried about how stressed he is about money and where they live and he has no chill about any of it.

        How does that translate into having a dead bedroom?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      looloool

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Is marriage a good investment?
    Yes, if you aren't moronic. Why you would marry someone like the woman in OP pic is bizarre to me. It's not like suddenly overnight she developed that personality. People don't change. Dating is basically vetting whether or not you want to spend your life with someone.

    Marrying a good woman was the best financial decision I ever made. We share expenses, but get the benefits of 2 salaries. She'll probably even make more than me in the next few years in her line of work, which is awesome. Together we could retire (if we wanted) significantly sooner than either of us individually ever could.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >t. larping 20-year old

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cope more. Sorry your wife sucks.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This really Deperate people see dating and job interviewing as proving their worth to others rather than figuring out if that thing fits into the life that they're trying to build.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Bingo

        >Is marriage a good investment?
        Yes, if you aren't moronic. Why you would marry someone like the woman in OP pic is bizarre to me. It's not like suddenly overnight she developed that personality. People don't change. Dating is basically vetting whether or not you want to spend your life with someone.

        Marrying a good woman was the best financial decision I ever made. We share expenses, but get the benefits of 2 salaries. She'll probably even make more than me in the next few years in her line of work, which is awesome. Together we could retire (if we wanted) significantly sooner than either of us individually ever could.

        You can do the same just living together though. I think for me the main benefits are some tax, but mostly legal rights a partner is granted like power of attorney. But I agree, vet someone hard. They say 2yrs is that honeymoon phase so don't rush it and make sure she is a compliment to your life. Guys too often start thinking with their lower head instead of the top one.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Marrying a good woman was the best financial decision I ever made. We share expenses, but get the benefits of 2 salaries
      you don't need to marry for that. wtf??

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >working wife

      if you only knew how cucked you really are

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If she makes more than you you’re going down divorce street unless you offer her something very special (much better looking than her, generational wealth, very funny and charming personality)
      Women initiate divorce when they make more than men, men just sing whoopdee doo im rich! But the woman knows she could do better and the relationships don’t last.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yeah bros, just get married, everything will be great for about two weeks...then prep your tight newbile butthole to get owned and shakled by a roastie for the rest of your pathetic life.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No sex for years they're cucks aren't tehy

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Seriously bros, Just get her the ring. Everything will be cool, trust me, bro!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      But he still has hundreds of millions more. How much money can one person need tbh?

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    God I love my wife

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I love your wife too

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop thinking about divorce bros, just focus on your love for your soon to be wife! Shes totally worth it. Your problem is that you dont know how to be a real man and meet every single one of her demands! Grow up!

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The thing is these guys get married to woman who are just settling for them, if your girls not obsessed with you and blowing you/fricking you atleast 3-4 days a week youre screwed. If you know you know, chads know.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, pretty much what I said here

      [...]

      I've also noticed the worst women end up with the softest/nicest guys, because they're the only ones who will tolerate the serious bullshit. Dude just sat there hiding his discontent while he went sexless for 5 years while paying for her life.

      betabux is real

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Judge a girl 80% on her follow shop, her worship of you. 15% kindness to your parents. Rest to beauty.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you enter into a binding financial agreement under the guise of a "loving relationship"?

    The self-deception that people in relationships engage in is something that can only be witnessed from the outside.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >The self-deception that people in relationships engage in is something that can only be witnessed from the outside.
      wait, you homies still believe "love" is real? i thought everyone knew "feelings" are your body tricking you into reproducing??? just pick a good partner. but not for "love" love is a scam.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Come on bros, just marry her! You don't need a prenup bro! plus they don't even work even if you got one! Just get the ring, bro!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      prenups unironically don't work, I don't know if you're being sarcastic
      She can just say she signed it under pressure or some shit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Only in Muttmerica

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Are prenups full proof in Europe, I honestly have no idea
          t. europeon zoomer

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        in europe they work, also anything you have before you marry will never be hers. only the things you accumulate during the marriage is in potential danger.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Good prenups do. Also don't live in a man-hostile state, makes a big difference when court time rolls around.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It was sarcasm. Prenups hardly work. You need to put your assets in a Trust before getting married if you want to bring that nightmare on yourself

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Or just 'lose' your crypto wallet filled with all of your xrp.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You will still be ordered by a ~~*judge*~~ to pay her as soon as it is "Found"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            no body will know when it is "found" case I have a bag of Monero which is private.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then you can just move states or even the country. How the frick will they know if I'm spending my money somewhere else?

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Also for anyone thinking a strong marriage doesn't help with finances, look at what Warren Buffet has to say about that:

    https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/14/warren-buffett-says-the-most-important-decision-is-who-you-marry.html

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >look at what boomer says
      boomers say boomer things, always under the delusion that they didn't live on tutorial mode in a world geared entirely to make them successful in everything

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Warren Buffet
      look up the reality of the situation
      he was a buck broken cuck that state married to the cheating b***h until her death for almost 3 fricking decades, great example of marriage there

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is your wife barren? I'm guessing from what you have said that she is

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Nope, planning to try for kids in the next year or two.

        >working wife

        if you only knew how cucked you really are

        Yeah man it's so bad having twice as much income coming in, I am truly cucked by having a wife who contributes to the marriage instead of just consuming from it. Stay jealous though.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          she taking dick at work

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Women require men to provide for them like they’re children just like men require women to be sweet and nurturing. A man who is a “partner” is not a real husband, from the woman’s perspective, it’s as off putting as a woman who is a cold b***h all the time vs a sweet and positive one. I say this as a woman.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why even get married nowadays if you live a secular non-religious lifestyle? marriage has always been about tradition

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If you aren't religious, it is categorically a scam

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      no. marriage was meant for womens fathers to give them away to another man who was trustworthy enough to have many children with her. The woman was meant to raise children and keep a home while the man went out to work to provide a stable income. Women were always meant to be the property of men, prior to the ~~*feminist movement*~~. Now that these gender roles have been obliterated there is almost no incentive to get married what so ever. The Holy Bible explicitly states that "A woman shall not have authority over a man"

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        the problem with that is women have been allowed to campaign for a divorce in pre-abrahamic cultures. hell, afaik only Christianity and maybe modern hinduism are particularly harsh about divorce.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          are you a pajeet?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            no, but thats irrelevant. divorce in ancient rome was relatively easy compared to now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's why roles were so important. Everything fit and made sense. For the man taking her as a wife was a big responsibility and he would have her family to deal with if he did wrong. Stripping men of any and all authority took away their part of the bargain. Now it's an entirely one sided, shit, misandristic deal.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          99% of everyone's role here if we lived in those "good ole days" would be a dirt poor peasant living in a town or village, worked to the bone, that is one step to being pillaged. I don't want them back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      no hymen no diamond no exceptions

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Taxes

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a good investment but not for every type of person. I think it works best for either low IQs who need the mutual help or high IQs who are capable of attaining incredible fairytale marriages. In my marriage I attempt to right curve it by striving to be the most elite version of myself, and autistically applying game theory to all of our interactions (essentially almost always cooperating even when her hormones tell her to argue). It takes skill that most people don't naturally have. If I was even slightly dumber I could have easily navigated myself into an aromantic normie marriage. That's how easy it is to permanently frick things up, despite me being lucky enough to experience the statistical miracle of finding a 10/10 brilliant virgin who also satisfies my long list of overly specific preferences. It's really all or nothing, or else the lifelong commitment isn't worth it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Jason bourne over here

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    worst investment of the 21st century.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Only if you're 35 and marrying an 18 year old who is submissive and feminine

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      my god imagine living with a femoid and having this type of stupid interaction every other night, i would fricking kill myself.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yea this is fricking annoying. My fiancee wants to cuddle after sex but we’re sweating and it hot. I just wanna go to bed after I dump my load.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lmao. only the incel who never had GF would be jealous about missing out on the Left vid part

        Yea this is fricking annoying. My fiancee wants to cuddle after sex but we’re sweating and it hot. I just wanna go to bed after I dump my load.

        kek. dump the load and sleep. based.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Those are both MEN

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a terrible financial investment, but an excellent investment for your mind and soul IF you find a woman worth marrying. If you're not concerned with hoarding wealth then it's absolutely worth it, otherwise stay away.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You marry early to find a girl who you can mold.

      Being in a lower tax bracket and getting those sweet deductions is a great way to build wealth.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nice try zog, a real white man gets married at 18 and works a trade. All the seethe I'll get from this are from coomer neets whose dicks don't work

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Alas, the Consequences of Feminism. Enjoy

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    He sounds like an idiot anyway

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Thank God I married a sane woman who makes just as much money as I do. Pick wisely, friends.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Did the opposite my wife works, makes less than me. But i’m the best she’ll ever get.

      She would get excommunicated from our community if she ever initiated divorce.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why does everyone suck so hard?

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It depends on what you want when you say investment. Financial? Emotional? Sexual? Homemaker? Kids? There are many reasons people get married. As much as men b***h about women being gold diggers I’ve seen plenty of men marry HORRIBLE women for financial security and they go on to live miserable lives. Like, just the other day I ran into an old friend. He dumped this pretty girl he had been dating for a few years, who was NUTS about him and got along great with all of us, for this truly awful woman (whose daddy had lots of money) and he married her. We all thought he was insane. She froze all his friends out, of course. A real b***h. He has dead bedroom and plays Magic the Gathering all the time and other online stuff. He has no kids. He’s fat now, bald, just a wreck in general. I’m not sure how that marriage has lasted.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >im not sure how his marriage has lasted

      Hes clearly waiting for the c**ts dad to die so maybe he will get a slice of the inheritance

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on you and the woman.

    Due to the fact that I'm not Zeus and can cut myself an heir from my thigh, I need to invest into a quality relationship in order to have fine kids.
    Therefore you need a good job/assets and a decent character. Find another decent character of the opposite sex and voila.

    Ofc it will suck at times.
    I'm totally sleep deprived but happy, because the little one next to me finally has free nostrils and sleeps soundly.

    Pearl Jam- Do the evolution

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      we're like 10 years away from literally being to make kids with your thigh, less if you choose other parts

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >there is a problem in the relationship
    >recognize that your wife is not a mind-reader, and communicate your concern
    >wife engages with your concern and acts to correct the problem
    >this means that she hates you

    Why are men like this?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >5 years

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      See my post two below yours. The book is written in a very rambling fashion but he does hit the same point over and over: people in relationships develop resentment, and then go out of their way to deprive their partner of happiness in some fricked up way of "balancing the scales". Of course they don't talk to each other, so this breeds resentment on both sides, and they don't even break up, they just stay together trying to make each other more miserable so they "win".

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I brought up my concerns about sex
    >she then initiated sex
    >we both enjoyed it*
    >think that's great? Here's why not:
    * marks the point where the problem is, and it's on the guy's side. It's not enough that he enjoy sex, his wife had to NOT enjoy it. He wants to deprive her of joy, even when that hurts his own joy, because he's resentful of (his perception) her not initiating and turning down his initiations for years.

    That guy needs to read Sadly, Porn.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      what do you mean deprive her of joy, during the 5 years? How is it a perception if she literally didn't initialize?

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >print out list of divorce lawyers
    >go to strip club
    >continue to tell wife she’s fat and dumb
    >openly cheat on her
    >ignore everything she said to me
    You either make her miserable enough to leave or she changes her tune. Not hard betas

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably not. A non revokable trust and a prenup can mitigate alot of risk. These guys are on reddit and thus cucks. Stay in shape, keep frame and you'll continue to have sexy times.

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you have a vegana it is the best investment you can ever make.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a good investment if your wife works and has a similar salary to you. I don't feel bad for paypig husbands who get divorced

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't really get it, guy sounds like an idiot

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