Love is transactional. Love marriages arent traditional.

Love is transactional. Love marriages aren’t traditional.

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  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Love is transactional
    How do i stop believing this

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Everything is economics. Weighing your decisions is an monetary and moral economic balance. To believe love isn’t transactional is to deny the nature of human interactions.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        shut up marx

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's Mises, not Marx
          Economy and human action are one in the same

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            he said everything is economics, marx said all social relationships are economic relationships

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is your brain on materialism.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ok, explain why it's wrong

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You don't.

      However, even though it is transactional it still manifests as an emotion, so that doesn't make it any less genuine.

      When people say things like "love is transactional" what they have in mind is that there are rational, calculating, gold diggers, marrying husbands they don't actually love in order to get access to their resources. What they don't understand is that if this sort of bonding required 'rationality' it would be quite unstable and probably inaccessible to many who lack the properly developed reasoning facilities. What actually happens is that women pick up social cues and markers of status and success and that translates into developing emotions.
      This is also why you can find women to become more likely to divorce their husband when they're given a raise or a promotion. The status differential becomes smaller and thus also the genuinely felt affection dwindles.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >However, even though it is transactional it still manifests as an emotion, so that doesn't make it any less genuine.
        Why not? There being a rational calculation underpinning our relationship that might one day make me lose her forever makes it an unsafe investment. If I was the type that could afford to lose an investment, that would tip the scales of this transaction the other way, and it would also not be genuine.
        So, without this genuine connection (or the illusion of it), there is very little to get out of a real relationship in a materialistic world of services, short term relationships and anti-children sentiment. A constant battle to earn love sounds exhausting to me, even if that makes me a sappy, idealistic loser.
        >What they don't understand is that if this sort of bonding required 'rationality' it would be quite unstable and probably inaccessible to many who lack the properly developed reasoning facilities. What actually happens is that women pick up social cues and markers of status and success and that translates into developing emotions.
        I don't see how this changes anything, honestly. It just makes the "formula" better. More adaptable, easy to navigate, and like you said, any moron can use it. This is typical with sexual traits. A bird doesn't see another bird's genetic quality, but it sexually selects for an easy marker, such as beauty.
        >This is also why you can find women to become more likely to divorce their husband when they're given a raise or a promotion. The status differential becomes smaller and thus also the genuinely felt affection dwindles.
        I think I get what you mean now. The feeling, although based on a very very cool algorithm, is genuine at any given moment, until it isn't. I guess me being afraid of this algorithm is, of sorts, sexual selection.
        Nature is beautiful.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I think I get what you mean now. The feeling, although based on a very very cool algorithm, is genuine at any given moment, until it isn't.
          Exactly.

          There often is an assertion of malevolence, cold rationale, "gold digging", etc. in the subtext when talking about these things. Even if the sexual brain has an excel table baked into its neural network which reaches a cold, rational conclusion by the numbers, what it manifests as is an emotion of genuine love.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Love isn't transactional, it is conditional. That's why people fall out of love when their partner changes, but at the same time often love their deceased partners years or decades after the fact.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >What actually happens is that women pick up social cues and markers of status and success and that translates into developing emotions.
        How come nobody seems to get this, I've explained this so many times to all the lookism gays, and they just live in denial

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You become something worth loving, same way anyone else transcends value relations that crush every aspect of our existence into pulp. You create a kind of value that isn't like traditional value forms. Like an artist or great soul. But you are a tiny soul like me. You hide here because everyone in real life sees nothing In you, because if the world could see you they'd laugh.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >using IQfy.org to project ur insecurities onto random anons
        sad

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >how do i stop believing objective truth
      You could try a lobotomy I guess

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    You have never loved or been loved before.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You could commit murder with your lover and she'll still snitch on you when she's caught.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        El Chapos wife maintained that she knew nothing of her husband's criminal life when she was under surveillance and interrogation for hours LMFAO homie you have never been loved

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >El Chapos wife maintained that she knew nothing of her husband's criminal life when she was under surveillance and interrogation for hours LMFAO homie you have never been loved
          The two examples are nothing alike, sperg. Women love a bad boy. But when her OWN neck is on the line, they usually snitch.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Women love a bad boy.
            Moving the goalpost.
            >But when her OWN neck is on the line, they usually snitch.
            It was on the line, moron. She was complicit in his drug empire (as if a wife wouldnt know she was married to a drug lord) and was being threatened with life in supermax or had offers dangled over her.

            damn. you're less loveable than a guy who turns people into posole. it's over.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Moving the goalpost.
            No, that's me reminding you something everyone knows.

            >It was on the line, moron. She was complicit in his drug empire (as if a wife wouldnt know she was married to a drug lord) and was being threatened with life in supermax or had offers dangled over her.
            If she snitches on El Chapo, she is going to be killed one way or another. Not snitching and taking the charge is the easy way out. She guarantees her life now and might even be free if they can't convict her.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You become something worth loving, same way anyone else transcends value relations that crush every aspect of our existence into pulp. You create a kind of value that isn't like traditional value forms. Like an artist or great soul. But you are a tiny soul like me. You hide here because everyone in real life sees nothing In you, because if the world could see you they'd laugh.

      delulu

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus Christ IQfy would be so much better if it weren’t filled with loveless freak rejects

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao. Get out then if you're so fulfilled and don't fit in. I bet that's not true though. I'd rather bond with my fellow pissers and understand we have the same struggles than hope everyone gets replaced by normies. Frick off and go back.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      reddit.com

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kys normalgay

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >i've been called out so i'll post this vaguely fitting caricature to prove him wrong and call him a dumbass

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’s the door. You don’t want loveless freak rejects? Leave and there’ll be one less

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Love is not transactional

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    We love people who are dead.
    Where's the transaction there?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >money pit

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    historical incels seethe about women that marry pitiable men but why do women do it

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Attachment is not love. Don't misuse the word love.

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah like so for God so loved the world he GAVE and giving is a spiritual transaction but imagine needing a reason to love God. That's not love that's some prostitution shit.

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