It Happened To Me: I was raped by my wife's boyfriend It's a mutually beneficial arrangement—my wife has her fun, and I have learnt to enjoy watching her. And then this happened. Trigger warning: rape.

My wife and I have been involved in cuckolding for a few years now. It wasn't so much a fetish for me at first, but it was necessary for our marriage as I am unable to satisfy her needs completely and she loves me too much to leave me.

Until now, things have been good. My wife has had dozens of lovers and a few long term boyfriends. It's a mutually beneficial arrangement - my wife has her fun, and I have learnt to enjoy watching her. I enjoy selecting them for her as I feel it helps me improve my own performance.

Until now, I've been good friends with all my wife's boyfriends. I'm not bi and my wife has admitted it would be a turn off for her to watch me service other men, so that's never happened. Usually they'd just meet me in my lunch hour at work and I'd grab us all a coffee or what have you.

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A few months ago she met a man at a work function and by all accounts they hit it off immediately. At my wife's request I tend to give her space with new boyfriends, so last night was the first time I met this guy.

I don't want to go into detail, but he forcefully penetrated me.

My wife asked him to leave immediately. We sat and talked the whole night (mainly just me crying and her comforting me).

This is a breaking point for us. My wife has broken up with him and will be visiting him one last time this weekend to tell him never to contact us and not to lay a finger on me again. It looks like our cuckolding adventure has come to an end.

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What should I do here? I don't know whether to call the police. I guess there's not much I can do. I just wanted to warn you all, there are some deranged people in our little community and they sometimes spoil it for the rest of us.

Has anyone else had similar experiences?

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  1. Some of these comments are whack.

    Not even my kink, like at all. But consenting to one thing does not mean consenting to all.

    And no one deserves to be raped. EVER.

    Just because he likes cucking, or did, doesn't make him less of a human.

    It's called roleplay for a reason, it's not real, it's pretend used for sexual purposes.

    Now that's said, the forceful act that did happen is very real. And it's sus you're victim blaming. Says more about you than it does him.

    I would never do this for my marriage, I very much disagree with it as well as the role reversal, however. His marriage is not my marriage.

    And my disagreeing/differing views.. That doesn't make him any less of a victim and he did NOT ask for it. AT ALL.

  2. I had a good friend try and watch me fuck his wife. His wife was hot, and I would have beat her pussy the fuck up. But I could never do that to a friend. He just wanted to watch. No freaking way.
    WTF kind of a man enjoys watching his wife fuck some other dude?
    How the fuck is that a fetish?
    I have more respect for someone who likes to eat logs of shit than I do a cuck.

  3. Remember when marriage actually meant something and scrotebrains like you weren't out perverting it? You brought this on yourself when you went into this area, this isn't marriage, this is just being a pimp without any of the attitude, clothes, or guts. You let your "wife" whore herself out while you sit there and suffer, what kind of marriage is that? There's no love there, no commitment, just two scrotebrains playing pretend. No sane human being actually enjoys causing them-self emotional pain to the level cheating causes, you've probably got a screw loose, either seek some professional help and drop your stupid ass lifestyle and whore of a "wife" or have a nice day, she's probably just using you for financial reasons anyway. She doesn't care about you and no one else will so long as you live as a human doormat.

  4. >"This is a breaking point for us. My wife has broken up with him and will be visiting him one last time this weekend to tell him never to contact us and not to lay a finger on me again."

    Don't talk to my husband or my husbands anus ever again!

  5. "visiting him one last time this weekend" a.k.a. freaking him again while you sit and cry at home.

    Sort yourself out.

  6. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Nobody deserves that kind of violation, and it is not your fault regardless of what kink or fetish you were participating in.

    I would encourage you going to the police immediately and discourage your wife from seeing him again. This guy is a rapist and doesn't care about limits or consent, it is not safe for her to see him, especially not alone.

    You did nothing wrong, and there are resources or there to help you.

    • Can you imagine? What is he gonna tell the police?

      "Id like to report a rape. I was watching this guy fuck my wife and he all of a sudden bonked me too"

      Unbelievable.

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