Any psychology books on sibling rivalry that aren’t pop sci or written by a woman? I need a male perspective on guys who can’t stand their sister. Image sort of related.
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Any psychology books on sibling rivalry that arent pop sci or written by a woman?
You hate her because you can't frick her.
Completely untrue. She’s not even my type
yeah don't listen to him you two can still frick
No thanks. I like large breasted brunettes not itty bitty titty blondes
Well I can at least tell you my own perspective. When we were children me my sister were inseparable, we played, slept, bathed and even went to the potty together. This continued until well into our early teens. I started to notice the growth of my sister and her changing appearance, and I began to notice how some of the adults were now a bit put off by how close we were, as if a normal thing had now turned perverse. One time we were scolded when I was 13 and her 12, we would play on the bathtub naked and scrub against each other, when our maid saw us she told us siblings shouldnt do such things. Neither of us understood what she meant. It was me who, at 14 asked our parents for separate rooms, and started doing things on my own. I had just discovered masturbation and wanted privacy. Only then did my sister also began to change alongside me, she would nag me for everything, and would be resentful over any little thing to Extreme degree. I too started seeing everything shed do and say as a threat or an insult.
A year afterwards, for no real reason, I kissed her while we were changing for school. I acted entirely on an impulse unknown to me and would have continued had it not been for her fierce reaction, she pushed me away and told me to never do that again and left for school.
From there onwards, I dont know whats gotten to me, I would date a woman and my sisters nagging and insults would dramatically increase, and she would date a man and I would be cruel and distant to her. This has gone on for a decade. Sometimes I think on how things could be different but I wouldnt know.
does your sister happen to be Asuka Langley Sohryu from Neon Genesis Evangelion?
No?
just kidding man, it's simply that your relationship with your sister is very similar to that between Shinji and Asuka from the show. you should give it a watch if you didn't already
>Shitty abusive parents
Good relationships with siblings because you will use each other for support
>Useless oversocialized golemBlack person-parents who ceeded their role to state sponsered shit like kindergarten
You will fight with your siblings for every little bit of attention you instinctively need - and do not get - from your parents.
>Gigachad and Gigastacy Manipulative parents that know the best for their children
Basically the shitty parent scenario, minus the shitty parents. If done properly you can psyop your children into loving each other, but it requires a functioning brain and a knack for manipulation.
>Incredibly good-gened parents
You and your sister are too hot. Literally hotter than any other people in your social circle like school, sports, friends etc. This eventually will result incest potential, assuming you're in Scenario A or C, but to be real scenario A will most likely end up with parents raping their own kids. And if C's smart, they'll manipulate their kids to hate each other to prevent incest from happening.
>Any good parenting books
None. Bad parenting is the cornerstone of this golemworld. IF parents actually did their job properly, the israelites would have had 100 times harder time to manipulate the golem, hence why it's all femaleslop and useless advice like >never spank children, >never overpower their tantrums etc
Bait/pasta but if true talk to your sister about your incestuous feelings
lol, yeah I'll rather pass on ruining my life with that awful advice. Thank you.
Hey, you're the homosexual who loves his sibling. Don't get angry about it
NTA but both of your posts were gay and reddit
>Any psychology books on sibling rivalry that aren’t pop sci or written by a woman?
>I need a male perspective on guys who can’t stand their sister.
It is called being immature.
moronic homosexual take.
Seriously, there are plenty of people like that. Grownups fighting with their siblings over their dead parent's shit. Ridiculous childish crap. And if you think that most normies are actually mature and not 'old teenagers that are able to show up to work in a regular basis', then you are a butt hurt moronic homosexual.
And also, I don't know what would make you think that people overall are wise, especially when they are young. Wisdom comes with age, and life experiences, and it takes being a perceptive person to accumulate it.
I’d wager no, she’s incredibly condescending towards me as her older brother since I have developmental issues
iirc freud talks about sibling rivalry, especially from very young ages and if they are younger, from a libidinal oral fixation of sucking your mum's breasts, then when your sister comes along you get envious since you haven't got exclusive access anymore. oedipal lens is always funny but not sure where specifically he talks about that
My sister is a demon who basically drove my parents insane by throwing screaming tantrums every day and night for 15 years. I'm not sure it's a common thing but I don't think it's interesting enough to write a whole book about. Maybe look for essays instead.
I'm my mom's last born and my dad's only child and none of those apply to me