cant remember a fucking word

this is an admittedly stupid thing to make a thread over but I can't remember a certain word.
I know it's often used in context of relationships with other people. I can't think of a good definition but an example would be like if two friends sit and constantly tell each other to kill themselves or tell them they're worthless it may seem harsh on the outside but in the context of their relationship there's a certain yin and yang quality to how they speak.
Some phrases you associate with bad things are their way of communicating positive feelings and whatnot. An understanding that certain qualities take on different meanings under different circumstances with different people.

Any ideas?

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Idiosyncracy?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      jargon?

      Ribbing, raillery, bantz

      no, none of these. I don't know if this helps but it may have started with a c (though i always say something like that and then it's something totally different)
      Maybe a different example: two homeless drug addicts on the street that abuse each other but still love and get along with each other despite their outwardly harsh behavior. That type of intense, dire relationship I guess

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        camraderie?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Not it either. Maybe it wasn't a c lmao.
          I think I'm putting too much focus on the 'aggressive words that mean something nice' angle. When I think of camaraderie I think of guys busting each others balls for fun.

          Maybe think Gomez and Morticia Addams. It's easy to condemn them based solely on their outward appearance and likes but, when you get to know them, they're kind and loving people.

          The word I'm thinking of is sort of the opposite of a black and white condemnation of someone/thing. Like looking at the Northern Lights where they're not really one concrete shape and it fluctuates a lot.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            well, shit. any of these, or am i swerving way off track?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Similar concept, yeah. I think multi-faceted is an ok synonym but also kind of flat.
            FRICK this is killing me

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Kaleidoscopic is a great visual representation of what I'm thinking of, similar to the Northern Lights example I mentioned. A lot of shapes and colors that may not always stay the same but the general shape is always there

            In the relationship context: sometimes they do awful, aggressive things to each other with little to no regard for the others' safety/feelings (destroying the idea of a normal relationship) but also turning around and caring for each other when need be. It's still a relationship, just in a very unorthodox and peculiar way

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            could you perhaps place it in an example sentence or two for us? might help other anons hear the music

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Damn this is gonna be hard lol

            >I said to my estranged brother "We have a very [BLANK] relationship where it's always giving and taking, whether that be giving each other headaches or taking the time to talk to each other."

            >When I think back to that time frame, it's a constant wave form, [BLANK] in the way it sways downwards for a few days and then up the next, over and over again with no real pattern.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            That's not a constant wave form...

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Anon I'm posting on IQfy, I'm not exactly grade A material lmao
            I don't even know what a constant wave form is in the sense you mean, I was just trying to describe a wave that keeps moving continuously

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Inchoate?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            nope
            it's going to end up being something so stupid simple I swear...

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            ...is it sarcasm?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Brotherhood

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I would beat you up if you used this word irl

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Contentious? That would work in the first example:
            >I said to my estranged brother "We have a very contentious relationship where it's always giving and taking, whether that be giving each other headaches or taking the time to talk to each other."

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            i feel like this satisfies the first part of what i was talking about but not the ebb and flow of going from nice to mean/appearing nice or mean at different points

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Fluctuating.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            colloquial, oscillating, or undulating. thosr are my three guesses

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Oscillate

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Complicated

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Unconditional?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Omg this is it, thank you anon

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            fricks sake

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            If it is, you give really shitty examples where you probably shouldn't use the word

            I feel like you're using it wrong

            Omg this it, thank you anon

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            If it is, you give really shitty examples where you probably shouldn't use the word

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I feel like you're using it wrong

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            fricks sake

            If it is, you give really shitty examples where you probably shouldn't use the word

            I feel like you're using it wrong

            [...]
            [...]
            Omg this it, thank you anon

            OP here, not the word I'm thinking of lol

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            This word does not exist. You made it up in your delusional head. You are searching for a needle in a haystack but the needle isn't there

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            or I've been using a word completely wrong for my entire life and I'm describing it horribly. that, or I'm remembering using a certain word when in fact I used something else

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Are you a native English speaker? Perhaps you;re thinking of a word in a different language which doesn't exist in English?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Codependency? It doesn't really fit your examples but I can see how people would mistake it for those examples

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >Codependency
          I think that's too material of a word in the sense that it relates solely to person to person things. I'm 90% sure it's used often used with relationships but not intrinsically related to that.
          The word I'm thinking of (I'm pretty sure) can relate to really anything: machines, a certain places weather/people/mood, nature
          I believe the concept I'm trying to describe is that of an adjective lmao

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I can think of an antonym to that with a c: cloying

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            complementary?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            not it, all I can think of it geometry lmao
            pretty sure it's a shorter word as well

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            compatible?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            not it either
            maybe it begins with ch?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            chemistry?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            not it. I think even shorter words than that.
            maybe this helps?

            Damn this is gonna be hard lol

            >I said to my estranged brother "We have a very [BLANK] relationship where it's always giving and taking, whether that be giving each other headaches or taking the time to talk to each other."

            >When I think back to that time frame, it's a constant wave form, [BLANK] in the way it sways downwards for a few days and then up the next, over and over again with no real pattern.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            compatible?

            Chompatible?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Well, unless it's slipped your mind already for a few days, it'll probably come back shortly. Usually the mind manages to sort these things out without your conscious meddling, somehow, so maybe in a couple hours you could remember it. Come tell us when/if you do because I always enjoy these. It's usually so far off the mark, as you pointed out, that it's its own little comedy, and I do enjoy them.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >Well, unless it's slipped your mind already for a few days
          I've been thinking about this for a while now lmao
          It sucks because it's right on the tip of my tongue and I can visually see the idea it describes but the word just escapes me.
          Honestly a form of torture

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        commiserate

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          not it, i feel that's really off the mark
          maybe not a c word?

          ...is it sarcasm?

          no lol

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Codependent?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/S29EYum.jpg

        this is an admittedly stupid thing to make a thread over but I can't remember a certain word.
        I know it's often used in context of relationships with other people. I can't think of a good definition but an example would be like if two friends sit and constantly tell each other to kill themselves or tell them they're worthless it may seem harsh on the outside but in the context of their relationship there's a certain yin and yang quality to how they speak.
        Some phrases you associate with bad things are their way of communicating positive feelings and whatnot. An understanding that certain qualities take on different meanings under different circumstances with different people.

        Any ideas?

        may God, Jesus and The Bear forgive me for typing this but you're looking for "tsundere"

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          I puked in my mouth a little. Please stay in your containment board.

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    jargon?

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Ribbing, raillery, bantz

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    cynism
    ce la vie

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Synchronistic?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      no dice

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    IQfy I thought your smart
    Why don't you want to help

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    The first word that come to mind are:
    >vitriolic (filled with bitter criticism or malice)
    Friends who are constantly nasty to each other and seem extremely quarrelsome are often describe as "vitriolic best buds," to the point that this is the trope's name on TVTropes.

    Others include:
    >quarrelsome ("a quarrelsome duo")
    >bellicose ("bellicose buddies")
    >pugnacious ("pugnacious pals")
    >cantakerous ("a cantankerous friendship")

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    symbiotic

  9. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Fractious?

  10. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Capricious?

  11. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Banter lul

  12. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    sneed

  13. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Comiserate

  14. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    See:

    https://www.powerthesaurus.org/of_one_mind/synonyms

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      none of these. I don't know if this makes sense but they're too material, like I said before.
      Frick man, I don't even know if what I'm thinking of even has a word lol

  15. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Rapport

  16. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Frick you butthole. It's not my job to research whatever positive/negative connotation you're looking for

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      dumb frogposter

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        wasteposting

        Go fricking open a dictionary or thesaurus dude
        You think I'm gonna waste my time

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >open a dictionary or thesaurus dude
          ok now what

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      wasteposting

  17. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Perchance

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      You can't just say perchance.

  18. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Rant?

  19. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    ?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      simpatico sounds similar to it in the sense that it's a foreign word. maybe what I'm thinking of is?
      The synonyms here seem too cut and dry knowing their definitions.
      The Northern Lights example where I said it can't be fully confined to one thing and is always moving I think is my best foot forward with this.

      I swear this is not a joke or a meme and I'm not trying to yank your collective chains for fun, I'm legitimately in an almost moral panic over this

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Nebulous

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          no, but this is the first word that's really been on a strong track. a science-esque term describing something as vague that can also be applied to relationships.
          FRICK it is right on the tip of my tongue

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Ambiguous.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            not it. ironically too "ambiguous" of a word for what I'm thinking of

            Amorphous

            not it either but closer than above

            [...]
            Cryptic. Enigmatic. I really want to crack this motherfricker now.

            both are too Bela Lugosi (ironic considering I'm the one who brought up The Addams Family)

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Gaseous. Vaporous. Ethereal.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >Gaseous. Vaporous
            Too scientific
            >Ethereal
            Too happy of a connotation

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Ambivalent.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Too wishy-washy in its meaning

            I may have to cut my losses and just convince myself it was nebulous lmao

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            You mean to tell me that you sent me on a wild goose chase and in the end you’re gonna go with my first entry? That’s some trifling shit.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            it was a joke relax lmao
            I'm a little low on hope at the moment

            like hell you do. too late to stop now. we're seeing this one through

            frick it then, let's keep going

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Questionable. Dubious. Equivocal. Wavering. Dithering.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            None of these.
            I think you really had something on that science route with nebulous

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Opaque?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            no, definition is too rigid and doesn't allow for the ebb and flow i mentioned before

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            like hell you do. too late to stop now. we're seeing this one through

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Amorphous

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Chaotic?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Ambiguous.

          Cryptic. Enigmatic. I really want to crack this motherfricker now.

  20. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    transgender

  21. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    moronic

  22. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    OP here, just wanted to say you've been TROLLED hahahaha, I'm not searching for any word

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Okay, Mr. Anonymous (32).

  23. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    friendly bump
    (this thing is starting to drive me insane too)

  24. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Abstruse?

  25. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Connotation.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Lololololol thank you thank you thank you so much.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Connotation.

        not it.

        Abstruse?

        not it either

        I'm beginning to think it's gotta be some word that I just now realized I've been using horrifically wrong my entire live

  26. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Crepuscular

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      no

      Minutiae

      no

  27. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Minutiae

  28. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    frick you IQfy, you're useless

    i've found it myself

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      stop pretending to be me moron

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        frick you IQfy, you're useless

        i've found it myself

        use a trip next time gayet

  29. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    mercurial

  30. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Gave you the damn word a day ago but you never replied. Just attention seeking at this point.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      This. I've sent OP a private message,.why he still pretends to not know the word is beyond me.

      But seriously OP, I think sociologists would know the word you seek.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >But seriously OP, I think sociologists would know the word you seek.
        i can't tell if this another joke or not lol
        I mean, I'll try anything at this point

  31. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Cheeky?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      nope

  32. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    sparring, brawling, hyperbole?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      none of the above

      colloquial, oscillating, or undulating. thosr are my three guesses

      oscillating is the closest in meaning of the three, but not it

      Acrimonious

      no, but the definition is close. maybe something that can oscillate between "acrid; corrosive" and the opposite, while still having good intentions underneath the both

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >close
        >begins with a C
        Caustic.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          no, but on track with the science-esque term like nebulous was.
          the actual definition has half of what I'm looking for. is there a fancier word for oscillating with the other requirements I've been mentioning?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Cyclic

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            exactly what I asked for and I applaud you for that, but not the word. that's impressive though

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            may God, Jesus and The Bear forgive me for typing this but you're looking for "tsundere"

            Lmfaoo, you just might be right.

            Thoughts OP?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Congruent

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >two friends sit and constantly tell each other to kill themselves

            You watch too much weebshit. People don't do this in real life. There's light ribbing and ballbusting between friends but humans aren't cliche anime archetypes.

            Cosine

  33. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Acrimonious

  34. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    are you sure it’s not capricious

  35. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Acerbic

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      this, along with nebulous and caustic, are front runners to the right track. Acerbic fits syllable wise in my head but that doesn't mean anything. I only vaguely remember hearing this word before

      Fuliginous

      not it

      Chaotic?

      not it

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Ascorbic.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          i've actually never heard of this word. still not it, but neat

  36. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Fuliginous

  37. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Erratic

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Protean

      neither

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Where did you hear it first?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          the word I'm thinking of or one of those two?
          the answer for both is I don't know. I'm still almost certain it's a science-esque word

          Dialectical, muddled, versatile?
          Of course not.

          sadly, no

  38. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Protean

  39. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Posting to help this SHIT THREAD hit bump limit sooner

  40. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Dialectical, muddled, versatile?
    Of course not.

  41. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    international

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Esoteric

      no and no

  42. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Esoteric

  43. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Are you describing a symbiotic relationship, one that may not necessarily always incorporate agreements?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      by looking at the definition, yes it appears that's exactly what I'm describing. symbiotic isn't the word though

  44. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    comorbidity?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      no. when I think of that I think of illnesses. although, it is vaguely science related

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        codependence
        reciprocity
        euphemistic
        symbiotic

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          is op still here i don't want to shout into the void
          if so, please turing test yourself and draw something in ms paint so i know you're not a bot. actually, draw it in photopea.

          Actually, OP, I found the exact word you're looking for, although it's used in a social context, not scientific. The word is dysphemism.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >dysphemism
            damn, that's really close definition wise. I've never heard of this word either. I'll check out synonyms

  45. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    is op still here i don't want to shout into the void
    if so, please turing test yourself and draw something in ms paint so i know you're not a bot. actually, draw it in photopea.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      that was harder than I anticipated.
      I don't like technology

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        lol, thanks
        can you answer these questions? You don't have to do all of them if you don't feel like it but I think they'd help.
        > what does the word describe specifically? A situation, a feeling an outsider gets looking in, a feeling an insider gets talking to an outsider, a visual quality, a trope, etc

        > Is the relationship actually good or bad? Hobos abusing each other is bad but the Addams are a good family

        > What part of speech is it most commonly used as? Is it usually an adjective, adverb, noun?

        > The word I'm thinking of (I'm pretty sure) can relate to really anything: machines, a certain places weather/people/mood, nature
        > Can you describe what kind of these things it would be used in relation to? As in give an example that isn't a relationship

        > What context is it heard in? Formal, informal, fiction, etc

        > What made you think of it?

        > Is it any of these? Counterintuitive, unconventional, insider, complex, chaotic, mosaic, misleading

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >> what does the word describe specifically? A situation, a feeling an outsider gets looking in, a feeling an insider gets talking to an outsider, a visual quality, a trope, etc
          to my knowledge, and I've said this before, it describes (or can be used to describe) a relationship between two things that, although aggressive on the surface, can easily fade to other, more 'regular' forms of relation that would be positive, all the while remaining positive in nature regardless. My brother and I tell each other to frick off and go kill ourselves among other things because that's how we understand 'love' but we also have moments of 'normal' interactions like talking about our emotions
          >question 2
          see above
          >part of speech
          I'd venture to say adjective, though I'm not entirely sure
          >example that isn't relationship
          it rains in Seattle a lot and is known for being rainy and drab and dreary to outsiders. it also can be sunny and warm and inviting. To people who live there, it's still Seattle with it's quirks and eccentricities exclusive to the city that can't really be contained to just one thing. Whether it rains or is sunny, it's still Seattle's weather 'talking' so to speak. One source, different tones of voice.
          >context
          almost certain it'd be formal.
          >what made me think of it
          was having a long convo with my brother and he asked me to describe our relationship
          >any of these
          closest would be mosaic in definition on a purely artistic level but no, it's none of those. they sound too common so to speak. I wouldn't consider the word I'm thinking of to be commonplace

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            So it's like getting to know someone/thing and developing your own "language," your own "signals," that are offputting to outsiders, but comforting/appealing to those in the know?
            This seems to be what you're describing, but it's not at all like words you've said are similar, like nebulous. Or "dysphemism," that one makes me feel like you're trolling or don't really understand the meaning of words. If I could describe it in a phrase, maybe I'd say "one big inside joke," "way of life,"
            Maybe customs, conventions, shibboleth, coded/secret code, acclimation? Reaching, maybe "mutually destructive?"
            Moar info please

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >Or "dysphemism," that one makes me feel like you're trolling or don't really understand the meaning of words
            How so? It basically perfectly describes a relationship where negative phrases and terms are used as a form of endearment.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe we're using a different dictionary. Mine says:
            > a derogatory or unpleasant term used instead of a pleasant or neutral one, such as “loony bin” for “mental hospital."
            As in, it refers to a class of words. It means "words that are euphemisms, but rather than making a thing sound better, it makes it sound worse."
            I'm probably going to give up now because you're probably just thinking of some dumb word like coitus that we're never gonna guess cause you've misunderstood its meaning.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Webster-Merriam says: "the substitution of a disagreeable, offensive, or disparaging expression for an agreeable or inoffensive one"

            Which is the opposite of a euphemism. Ie, using a bad word to obscure a meaning which is good. In other words, what is going on with OP as he stated in the original post.
            >words that are euphemisms
            Euphemism is the antonym of dysphemism, that's how I found it to begin with.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >or don't really understand the meaning of words
            i wouldn't doubt it.
            Nebulous was close for me because I think visually and have to/always attach a physical picture to a word or phrase to get it. When I think of a nebula I think of a wide reaching body of "stuff" more or less that shifts and changes shape while still remaining a nebula.
            It's entirely possible I fricked this from the start this way, and I apologize. I'm not trolling, but maybe I didn't go about it the best way to get an answer

            Maybe we're using a different dictionary. Mine says:
            > a derogatory or unpleasant term used instead of a pleasant or neutral one, such as “loony bin” for “mental hospital."
            As in, it refers to a class of words. It means "words that are euphemisms, but rather than making a thing sound better, it makes it sound worse."
            I'm probably going to give up now because you're probably just thinking of some dumb word like coitus that we're never gonna guess cause you've misunderstood its meaning.

            I'm probably going to give up now because you're probably just thinking of some dumb word like coitus that we're never gonna guess cause you've misunderstood its meaning.
            completely understandable. thank you for your time. lot of sharp minds on lit

  46. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Colloquial ?

  47. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Ball busting

  48. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    WE NEED TO FIND THE WORD. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

  49. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    indeterminate

  50. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    intricate
    sinuous
    impenetrable
    incomprehensible
    indiscernible
    baffling
    inconceivable
    foreign

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      none of these

      balanced
      entropic
      syntropic

      no, but the last two are on the right track with the science stuff

      Miasma

      no

  51. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    balanced
    entropic
    syntropic

  52. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Miasma

  53. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Tumultuous

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      scintillating? acerbic?

      capricious????

      none of these

  54. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    scintillating? acerbic?

  55. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    capricious????

  56. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    What context did you hear the word in? Did you read it, did someone say it to you, and what were they talking about?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      WE NEED MORE INFO OP

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      If I don't know for sure what word it is, how would I know lol
      Like I said, I'm 90% sure I heard it in some science context, most likely in high school but I'm guessing

      misconstrued????

      no

      chameleonic

      no, but it's close in meaning and general science-ishness (in that it's describing biology)

      I would go with ambivalent

      i feel like this is kind of like the word but with the edges taken off

      contradictory

      contrarious

      back with the c words lol. i don't think it's these

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        CONGRUENT

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          not it

          Combative
          Sinusoidal

          neither

          Cholic

          no

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Well you're outta luck. Just coin a new term. It almost sounds like a familial relationship, you fight your siblings but you back em up as well. Constans contra agon

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >It almost sounds like a familial relationship, you fight your siblings but you back em up as well.
            it's a stretch, but is there a specific word for this?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Love Without Anger - Devo

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            nice song lol i like devo

            Confluence

            no

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >If I don't know for sure what word it is, how would I know lol
        Because if you cannot remember the context in which you've heard it, then it might be the case that you never heard it and were stuck for words that you never had. Most of the time when blanking on a word, people do not blank on all the contexts they've heard it in, because that is a different part of memory.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          huh, never thought of that. in that case, maybe it is a case of a fake memory

  57. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    misconstrued????

  58. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I would go with ambivalent

  59. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    chameleonic

  60. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    based isaak poster

  61. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    contradictory

  62. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    contrarious

  63. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Combative
    Sinusoidal

  64. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Cholic

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I would rape you if you said that shit irl

  65. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Bi-polar

  66. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Idiolect

  67. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Confluence

  68. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    youre morons, IQfy. you dont even know the word i'm seeking. fricking losers. go jerk off to the greeks fricking nerds

  69. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    please give me the fricking word. i'm writing a book. you motherfrickers

  70. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    scatological

  71. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    just to recap: according to OP, the word is NOT among the following

    >abstruse
    >acclimation
    >acerbic
    >acrimonious
    >ambiguous
    >ambivalent
    >amorphous
    >ascorbic
    >baffling
    >balanced
    >banter
    >bellicose
    >bipolar
    >brawling
    >brotherhood
    >c'est la vie
    >camaraderie
    >cantankerous
    >capricious
    >caustic
    >chameleonic
    >chaotic
    >cheeky
    >chemistry
    >cholic
    >chompatible
    >codependency
    >colloquial
    >combative
    >commiserate
    >comorbidity
    >compatible
    >complementary
    >complex
    >confluence
    >congruent
    >connotation
    >contentious
    >contradictory
    >contrarious
    >conventions
    >counterintuitive
    >crepuscular
    >cryptic
    >customs
    >cyclic
    >cynicism
    >dialectical
    >dithering
    >dubious
    >dynamic
    >dysphemism
    >enigmatic
    >entropic
    >equivocal
    >erratic
    >esoteric
    >ethereal
    >euphemistic

    (1/2)

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >fluctuating
      >foreign
      >fractious
      >fuliginous
      >gaseous
      >hyperbole
      >idiolect
      >idiosyncracy
      >impenetrable
      >inchoate
      >incomprehensible
      >inconceivable
      >indeterminate
      >indiscernible
      >insider
      >international
      >intricate
      >jargon
      >kaleidoscopic
      >mercurial
      >miasma
      >minutiae
      >misconstrued
      >misleading
      >mosaic
      >muddled
      >nebulous
      >opaque
      >oscillating
      >perchance
      >protean
      >pugnacious
      >quarrelsome
      >questionable
      >raillery
      >rant
      >rapport
      >reciprocity
      >moronic
      >ribbing
      >scintillating
      >shibboleth
      >simpatico
      >sinuous
      >sinusoidal
      >sneed
      >sparring
      >symbiotic
      >synchronistic
      >syntropic
      >transgender
      >tumultuous
      >unconditional
      >unconventional
      >undulating
      >vaporous
      >versatile
      >vitriolic
      >wavering

      (2/2)

  72. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Oh shit, I think I know what word you mean OP. You still here?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      yes lol I've been checking in. please tell me I'm going to go insane

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      OP here, yes.

      Are you a native English speaker? Perhaps you;re thinking of a word in a different language which doesn't exist in English?

      I am a native English speaker and don't know enough words in another language for this to be a problem lol

      just to recap: according to OP, the word is NOT among the following

      >abstruse
      >acclimation
      >acerbic
      >acrimonious
      >ambiguous
      >ambivalent
      >amorphous
      >ascorbic
      >baffling
      >balanced
      >banter
      >bellicose
      >bipolar
      >brawling
      >brotherhood
      >c'est la vie
      >camaraderie
      >cantankerous
      >capricious
      >caustic
      >chameleonic
      >chaotic
      >cheeky
      >chemistry
      >cholic
      >chompatible
      >codependency
      >colloquial
      >combative
      >commiserate
      >comorbidity
      >compatible
      >complementary
      >complex
      >confluence
      >congruent
      >connotation
      >contentious
      >contradictory
      >contrarious
      >conventions
      >counterintuitive
      >crepuscular
      >cryptic
      >customs
      >cyclic
      >cynicism
      >dialectical
      >dithering
      >dubious
      >dynamic
      >dysphemism
      >enigmatic
      >entropic
      >equivocal
      >erratic
      >esoteric
      >ethereal
      >euphemistic

      (1/2)

      >fluctuating
      >foreign
      >fractious
      >fuliginous
      >gaseous
      >hyperbole
      >idiolect
      >idiosyncracy
      >impenetrable
      >inchoate
      >incomprehensible
      >inconceivable
      >indeterminate
      >indiscernible
      >insider
      >international
      >intricate
      >jargon
      >kaleidoscopic
      >mercurial
      >miasma
      >minutiae
      >misconstrued
      >misleading
      >mosaic
      >muddled
      >nebulous
      >opaque
      >oscillating
      >perchance
      >protean
      >pugnacious
      >quarrelsome
      >questionable
      >raillery
      >rant
      >rapport
      >reciprocity
      >moronic
      >ribbing
      >scintillating
      >shibboleth
      >simpatico
      >sinuous
      >sinusoidal
      >sneed
      >sparring
      >symbiotic
      >synchronistic
      >syntropic
      >transgender
      >tumultuous
      >unconditional
      >unconventional
      >undulating
      >vaporous
      >versatile
      >vitriolic
      >wavering

      (2/2)

      ...yeah. I feel like an butthole that you all have gone through this with nothing. On the plus side, nebulous, caustic, and acerbic were the closest in feel and requirements

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        It can't be "toxic" relationship... can it?
        Please tell me that's now what you're looking for, OP...

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          toxic isn't it lol rest assured

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Thank fck. I detest that expression.
            It seems to to be indicative of this board's merit that it took so long for someone to propose it.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Would have killed him for that.

            lol

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            it seems to be indicative of how fricking stupid you think OP is for describing the word "toxic" as being related to seattle weather

            >> what does the word describe specifically? A situation, a feeling an outsider gets looking in, a feeling an insider gets talking to an outsider, a visual quality, a trope, etc
            to my knowledge, and I've said this before, it describes (or can be used to describe) a relationship between two things that, although aggressive on the surface, can easily fade to other, more 'regular' forms of relation that would be positive, all the while remaining positive in nature regardless. My brother and I tell each other to frick off and go kill ourselves among other things because that's how we understand 'love' but we also have moments of 'normal' interactions like talking about our emotions
            >question 2
            see above
            >part of speech
            I'd venture to say adjective, though I'm not entirely sure
            >example that isn't relationship
            it rains in Seattle a lot and is known for being rainy and drab and dreary to outsiders. it also can be sunny and warm and inviting. To people who live there, it's still Seattle with it's quirks and eccentricities exclusive to the city that can't really be contained to just one thing. Whether it rains or is sunny, it's still Seattle's weather 'talking' so to speak. One source, different tones of voice.
            >context
            almost certain it'd be formal.
            >what made me think of it
            was having a long convo with my brother and he asked me to describe our relationship
            >any of these
            closest would be mosaic in definition on a purely artistic level but no, it's none of those. they sound too common so to speak. I wouldn't consider the word I'm thinking of to be commonplace

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Not him, and plenty of terms itt wouldn't be applicable to weather, but acid rain in Washington state was a huge deal since the 80s because of the heavy reliance on the timber industry

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            what op means is a word that describes something hard to grasp; something that seems one way to outsiders, but is actually very complex and multifaceted on the inside

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Is Seattle weather hard to grasp and seems one way to outsiders but is actually very complex and multifaceted? Because

            it seems to be indicative of how fricking stupid you think OP is for describing the word "toxic" as being related to seattle weather [...]

            was talking about those things and raining half the year is not really multifaceted no matter what a meth head hipster from Seattle tried to convince you of to buy his shitty chapbook

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Would have killed him for that.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            It could have been a cosmic troll, but OP decided not to abuse his power in this way.

  73. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Agathokakological?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >A wild Alexander Theroux appeared!

  74. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Kismesissitude?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      never heard of that lol. no

  75. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    OP, I've found the word you've been looking for, but if you want it, it will cost you a pretty penny. Payment should be arranged in Monero.

  76. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    chromatic

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      negative

  77. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Fraternal? In any case it's a lot like what close siblings do, with their private references, lexicon, assorted modes of telepathy. Had a lot of that with my closest sister, and a guy I did a lot of nightclubbing with. The exclusivity of cliques & cults & camp follows a similar pattern of family-feeling when it comes to highly specific social context in shades of meaning. There are even poets whose whole manner is highly connotative, which is also to say intimate. Intimates, co-conspirators, confederates, etc.

  78. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Tease or teaser?

  79. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Organic

  80. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Guys maybe we should contact and ask an expert at this point. A professor of, I don't know what.

  81. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    A complicated relationship
    Involuted

  82. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Is the word you're looking for "dynamic"?

  83. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Congenial?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      too nice a word

      Antagonistic
      Agonistic

      neither

      I just want to know the word. Please remember OP

      So do I lol

  84. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I just want to know the word. Please remember OP

  85. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Antagonistic
    Agonistic

  86. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    you know what? unironically ask reddit. ask everybody you know. set up a group chat with all your relatives, college friends, and high school classmates. get as many people as you can. we need all the power in the world. offer a reward for the word.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      It's going to be like that picture of the guy that people saw in their dreams and send out fliers with a hotline under it lol

  87. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Sucessful bait thread. Congrats.

  88. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    we might have to gather the board's biggest brains and invent this word…and send someone back in time to plant it in OP's past

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      i'm all for it lmao

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      We're here. The word is "opisagay," pronounced /ope-IZ-uh-gay/, an adjective used to describe something that is nebulous, vague and incomprehensible; something whose complexity is only understood in its entirety by a very small few who are intimately familiar with it.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        guys close down shop i think we got the word

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Do you really say 'Ope' instead of 'Oh-Pee'?
        Am I the crazy one here?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          i say ope. what's wrong with you? have you unrionically been sounding out the letters? oh no no no no

  89. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    persiflage

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      not it

  90. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Aufheben

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      no

  91. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Covalent

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      not it

      Do you really say 'Ope' instead of 'Oh-Pee'?
      Am I the crazy one here?

      lol

  92. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    scornful? sardonic? choleric? irascible? copacetic? bickering? carping? caviling? uh...contumely? (shoutout to Shakespeare for having taught me that one long ago)

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      none of these

  93. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Pic related?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      pretty much, yeah. almost exactly what I'm looking to describe

  94. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    one of the best IQfy threads in a long time

  95. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    idiomatic

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      not it

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Mordant/Mordancy
        ADJECTIVE
        •(especially of humor) having or showing a sharp or critical quality; biting:
        "a mordant sense of humor"
        •Bitingly sarcastic:
        "mordant satire."
        •Incisive and trenchant:
        "an inquisitor's mordant."

  96. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    What a stupid fricking thread

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      what a stupid fricking reply

  97. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    i thought you meant dichotomal at first, but now im not so sure

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, not it

  98. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Just to clarify OP, is it strictly a positive word? or can it generally be used to describe a relationship or situation that is changing/context dependent/altered by circumstances, that can ultimately be either positive or negative?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I would say it's more of the latter. Pretty sure it can describe something across many contexts and the positive/negative connotation is all in what you're talking about

  99. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Parasitic? Virulent? Serpentine?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >Virulent
      this is a strong contender. it relates to diseases (which my brother and I had a class about in school) and can be used as a word for 'hostile or malicious' behavior. There's nothing about the opposite (looks one way but is actually multi-faceted on the inside) I keep talking about but as another anon suggested, that may've been a false memory on my part.
      I'll see what some other anons say but this may in fact be it

      Acrid, Elliptic

      neither

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        is it a word that would 'pop' as unusual or tryhard if it appeared in the sentence examples you posted upthread, or would it 'flow' with the sentence?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Virulent guy here, it seems pretty right to me or its something like miasmatic or pernicious, pestilent and infectious seem too disease related

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >I'll see what some other anons say but this may in fact be it
        Pretty gay thread of it's gonna end with "this is probably it"

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Really homie. Virulent.
        >Boy, I sure love meeting up with the bros and getting up to some splendid, mmmmm, virulent behaviour..
        Kys

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >>Boy, I sure love meeting up with the bros and getting up to some splendid, mmmmm, virulent behaviour..
          lmao that is the funniest thing i've read on IQfy

          is it a word that would 'pop' as unusual or tryhard if it appeared in the sentence examples you posted upthread, or would it 'flow' with the sentence?

          it would definitely pop as tryhard. our friendgroup are a bunch of nerds

          how the FRICK is virulent anything like your descriptions? frick you OP

          i told you, i think in pictures. in the way i was trying to use this word i think my wires got crossed in trying to visualize this word and trying to visualize my relationship with my brother. some anon called it early on saying it would probably end up being something stupid lol

          Well, unless it's slipped your mind already for a few days, it'll probably come back shortly. Usually the mind manages to sort these things out without your conscious meddling, somehow, so maybe in a couple hours you could remember it. Come tell us when/if you do because I always enjoy these. It's usually so far off the mark, as you pointed out, that it's its own little comedy, and I do enjoy them.

          >It's usually so far off the mark, as you pointed out, that it's its own little comedy,

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        how the FRICK is virulent anything like your descriptions? frick you OP

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I thought it was right on the tip of your tongue? Shouldn't the word you're looking for get a more assured reaction out of you than "this is a strong contender ... this MAY in fact be it"?

        >I'll see what some other anons say but this may in fact be it
        Pretty gay thread of it's gonna end with "this is probably it"

        It would somehow be more disappointing and lame than him not finding the word at all.

  100. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Acrid, Elliptic

  101. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Homogenous, Complementary, Reciprocal, Mutual

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Eccentric

      none of these

  102. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Eccentric

  103. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is the funniest thread I've ever seen on IQfy.

  104. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    invidious

  105. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Glib, haphazard, invective, vituperation, fulmination, obloquy, scurrility, acrimonious, corrosive, caustic, sardonic...vitriolic?

  106. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I can't be bothered to read all of this.
    Did OP find his word?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      not yet!

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Just sleep on it or its amazing bait

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Right now 'virulent' is the strongest contender

  107. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    My try : homoerotic.

  108. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I'm starting to think the word will turn out to be some relatively obscure proper noun that's turned into an adjective.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      i wouldn't doubt it

  109. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    OP, is this word how you could describe when that guy in the movie Predator says "bunch of slack jawed homosexuals 'round here!"? Friendly verbal jousting?

  110. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's time for OP to rewrite his paragraph.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      It's telling OP would waste all this time looking for a fancy *adjective* rather than just develop the characters by describing an actual situation using plain nouns and verbs.

  111. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    rowdy?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      horseplay, mischievous, puckish, romping frolicking?

      none of these

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        playful
        scrappy
        snappy
        rough and tumble
        waggish
        bantering
        whimsical
        lighthearted
        genial
        kindred
        flippant
        insouciant
        sanguine
        affable
        chummy
        zany
        giddy

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Supposedly it is “science-like”

  112. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    horseplay, mischievous, puckish, romping frolicking?

  113. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Copacetic :*~~)):)):)):))

  114. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    The negation of the negation.

  115. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    OP, is it a sociological or psychological word? Or what type of science are you referring to?

  116. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    HOW THE FRICK IS IT NOT SYMBIOTIC??

  117. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    volatile???

  118. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    choleric
    protean
    mercurial
    turbulent
    fickle
    fluid
    wayward
    mutable
    labile
    flighty
    fluctuant
    volcanic
    tempestuous
    transitional
    transitory
    transient
    fitful
    vacillating
    permutable
    skittish
    transitive
    prismatic
    motley
    heterogenous
    discrepant
    ephemeral
    fugacious
    evanescent

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      volatile???

      Copacetic :*~~)):)):)):))

      playful
      scrappy
      snappy
      rough and tumble
      waggish
      bantering
      whimsical
      lighthearted
      genial
      kindred
      flippant
      insouciant
      sanguine
      affable
      chummy
      zany
      giddy

      none of these

      I thought it was right on the tip of your tongue? Shouldn't the word you're looking for get a more assured reaction out of you than "this is a strong contender ... this MAY in fact be it"?
      [...]
      It would somehow be more disappointing and lame than him not finding the word at all.

      you make a good point. i also made similar remarks about nebulous, acerbic, and caustic, none of which are near virulent so I probably don't know this word as well as I thought I did

      OP, is it a sociological or psychological word? Or what type of science are you referring to?

      to my knowledge it wouldn't be either of those

  119. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Commensalistic/commensalism/commensal, coniferous, lethologica

  120. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    duplicitous

    >Duplicity comes from a Latin word meaning "double" or "twofold," and its original meaning in English has to do with a kind of deception in which you intentionally hide your true feelings or intentions behind false words or actions.

  121. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    salacious?

  122. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Terms of endearment

  123. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is clearly a demonstration to prove you can drive /lit insane by vaguely describing a word and insisting everybody offering a guess is wrong.

  124. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    facetious

  125. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    vicissitude

  126. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >simply invents the word

  127. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    OP is a homosexual.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I got it OP, the word you're looking for is Black folk. You're welcome

      checked and checked

  128. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I got it OP, the word you're looking for is Black folk. You're welcome

  129. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    bros, we're falling off..sorry to let you down op. it's been a wild ride, and i'm sure i speak for op and everyone itt when i say one couldn't ask for a finer buncha fellas when on the raging waters of language

    do check back with us if you ever find it

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I agree. Thank you all for your help, this was a wild ride and a lot of fun

  130. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    casmalrickeniumdesellia

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