Fell for the marriage meme. Now possibly looking at a divorce. I'm going to lose everything, aren't I? How can I avoid this? Arkansas resident.
Fell for the marriage meme. Now possibly looking at a divorce. I'm going to lose everything, aren't I?
Fell for the marriage meme. Now possibly looking at a divorce. I'm going to lose everything, aren't I? How can I avoid this? Arkansas resident.
>didn't marry a woman who makes more
Funny the anti marriage because you’ll lose everything in a divorce cuckolds and those that say you need to be a real man and provide for your wife insecure larpers are the exact same people, not realizing that if they had a wife with similar or greater income then they would have no divorce risk at all financially speaking
But that would require you as a man to be valued by women in some way other than money, and that’s just simply unlikely
>if they had a wife with similar or greater income then they would have no divorce risk at all financially speaking
You, sir, are astronomically incorrect.
Like 80% of those marriages end in divorce. It's really hard for a man to maintain status over a woman like that.
And 1% of couples that pray together every night divorce. Real statistic look it up.
What’s the real issue here
This. Unless you're a violent gigachad, women love sociopaths.
Buy Monero
Does she know about your crypto?
I fell for the don't leave the house and don't speak to people meme instead, I don't have any advice sorry.
> I fell for the don't leave the house and don't speak to people meme instead, I don't have any advice sorry.
This one is worse than divorce rape tbh.
Try to prepare for the worst. Save your kids, crypto and then find a new woman.
she will probably get custody of the kids so this is just shit advice. What do you suggest he do, throw all his remaining money into his kids? And then he has nothing.
OP: If you have to pay child support, just remember to pay it directly to the STATE you live in, not to your exwife, because if you pay your wife directly it is counted as a GIFT to your wife and the state will then say "oh you have not in fact payed any child support, you gave your exwife a gift of all this money through all these years" and throw you in prison as icing on the cake of shit. DO NOT FORGET!
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH FRICK YOU
Wtf did you do wrong? Don’t cheat and don’t yell at your wife and things should be fine. Wait until she’s fertile and make amends.
Is this a fricking joke? The #1 past-time of women is coming up with things that their man is doing wrong.
marriage is not a meme, you have failed to find yourself a good woman
if you get a shit woman, yeah
>marriage is not a meme, you have failed to find yourself a good woman
>if it fails it was a bad woman, if it doesn't fail it's a good woman
Post hoc rationalization is not very useful.
you shouldnt lose everything...only half. consider debtmaxxing perhaps?
Convert all assets to btc. Send all btc to the genesis wallet. Rope.
Have you tried striking fear into the heart of your woman? I don’t mean just smack her or tell her you’re gonna beat her or make it that obvious, but just little examples that you’re capable of extreme violence and that you’re slightly unhinged. Women love their feels (the above keeps them feeling excitement) and love violent men, they like being put in their place too. A quote from my girl “sometimes you just have to yell at me….” After I laid down the law and let her know I’d throw her ass out of the house if she kept acting moronic. It’s almost like training a dog OP, you don’t actually beat your dog (unless you’re a Black person) but your dog should know to act right and your voice alone should be able to put the fear of god in them.
After a couple of failed relationships every man learns this is the truth. But nowadays women are expected to be treated as "equals"... so on one hand you need to give them the feeling they are respected while on the other hand you give them their "dog training". This is all so moronic that I cant even find words for it and Im long past the point that Im willing to play all these mind games just to keep a stable relationship. The only solution nobody wants to talk about is, that you should be allowed again to give your women a slap when shes acting up. Men are not meant to navigate womens insane headspace.
It doesn't have to be physical. Have some self respect, take care of yourself, stay attractive, let her know (sometimes explicitly) you aren't afraid of moving on and leaving her. If she tries to get down your ass and nag or henpeck, turn it around on her, expect things of her, ask what she's doing for you or the family.
I love my fiance but she can be ridiculous and I realize the culture has poisoned her and most women out there, from experience. I've had to enforce a sort of harmony between us and some expectation. At this point we're either never marrying formally or doing a pre-nup, and there's nothing wrong with that. I have my commitment to wealth creation and she would rather hang out and only work for immediate necessities. I'm not going to be that guy who has his life raped by a state court.
I think a lot of guys need to break the conditioning, the society-imposed guilt complex, and repeat "there is nothing wrong with protecting yourself, your wealth, and having the right to decide how you want that split up should the relationship fall apart, not give all of that power to a malicious court and judge."
pre-nups get routinely thrown out and common law marriage rules will frick you anyways
>common law marriage rules
Not all states have these
so why can't you be with a woman who is more in line with your thinking? they exist contrary to what IQfy says, you don't need to be with someone who has a vastly different outlook on life. is it because she has the big booba or poompa?
get your girl into BDSM so discipline becomes a kink and part of the agreed upon dynamic
all women fear the pregnancy and birth. as an african, i make sure all my women give birth like ant queens. too bad whitey can't even compete wiht his 2 dead on arrival sperm he makes his entire life
you didn't even know what sperm was before the british taught you biology lol
This will only work on women with mommy/daddy issues.
This is bad advice in general, though true for some women.
There are, broadly, two types of women. Those with rape fantasies, and those with cuck fantasies.
Girls with the rape fantasies, yes, this is arguably somewhat sound advice.
For the girls who want to see you frick other girls, it's absolutely awful advice.
Btw, both groups look down on the other. The rape girls think the cucks are pathetic, and vice versa.
Get a proper lawyer.
Look into James Sexton and https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/ maybe.
Dont wallow in self pity. Go get laid asap. Lawyer up and strike first.
Financially just take the hit and move on. Youre gonna be OK bro, chin up.
T. Divorced at 32, remarried at 38 to a much wealthier and happier woman.
Is she hasn’t filed yet, transfer everything to your moms name or start an llc and transfer everything to that. Hire an attorney to do it and it will be done within the week. If you have kids with the chick, start reporting her to child services for abuse. Make shit up like her scratching them and yanking them out of bed by their hair. Trust me, she will do the same to you as soon as she files. But get ahead of the curve before she files so it doesn’t look like retaliation. If you lose the kids, move out of state cause you will have to pay child support and she will never allow you to see them. She will call the cops every time you show up and they will 100% take her side every time because that is what they are told to do.and she will poison your kids minds against you. But if you move out of state, most states don’t honor out of state child support warrants and eventually they will cancel it and just put the child support on your credit report that will mean frick all to banks after 5-7 years. Work as 1099 for companies for your first job out of state so they can’t send a support deduction order to hag HR c**ts to deduct your pay. Then change your job a couple times. They won’t send new deduction orders because child services are always under staffed and overworked and she won’t keep on it after a few weeks because white have short attention spans and she will shack up with a new dick by then because she has already targeted a new one and he has given all the signs that it’s safe to branch swing. Cut your losses and start a new family in a better state. Remember, you don’t own your kids in the feminized empire, she does. Good luck.
>interview kids
>no mommy didn't do any of that
Instantly fricked and lose kids
Yeah, also shit advice, NEVER TRANSFER ANY MONEY TO A WOMAN FOR SAFE KEEPING. NEVER GIVE POWER OF ATTORNEY TO A WOMAN.
MAKE THE LLC IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR MONEY IN THIS WAY.
You’re going to be setback enough that you’ll most likely never get over it. Even if you get over it financially, which you’re essentially going to be funding someone who will most likely never let you, you’ll still carry the trauma and powerlessness of the experience with you for the rest of your life. Divorce is generally catastrophic for a guy and part of that is because of how everyone acts during it. It’s just “oops sorry you didn’t know that my pussy cost that much…oh well, gimme your shit, thaaaaaanks ;)” You’re going to get carved up like a turkey.
>how do I avoid this?
You don't
Trains coming, and you're bound to the tracks
Get as many of your assets out of your name as possible and start working on a plan to get yourself back together (mentally/physically) ASAP. Its going to be a rough few years, and you don't ever really trust people anymore
>t. divorced 3 years ago
Transfer all your money to your trusted friend. Claim you got scammed. Divorce. All your money is returned by trusted friend. That or get a really good fricking lawyer.
Murder her. Blame it on someone else. Divorce can’t take your money if she dies first.
>How can I avoid this?
The african soccer player way. Donate everything to your mother, get an automatic transfer of your salary to your mother.
Do it smoothly over a few month, then when you have nothing to your name, divorce.
>Donate everything to your mother
In America this is a taxable event.
Start a new religion, claim your house is a church, donate your money to the church as tithes.
Not really. The divorce meme is exaggerated.
No kids, no child support. If marriage is less than 2 years, you probably aren't even gonna pay alimony for long.
A little more info: no kids, married Fall '21. Wife is also a foreign national, still on the green card. Not a citizen yet. Don't know if this would make it easier or harder.
Quitclaim deed your property to your parents if you trust them. No other advice to give.
>Wife is also a foreign national, still on the green card.
what nationality? how did you meet? (everyone says to never bring these foreign women back because they instantly transform into globohomogenized prostitutes)
You are on the hook for support up to her for 10 years or until she becomes a citizen. Even if you get divorced. But that never gets enforced. A short marriage like that and she's not getting half. But she'll probably get something.
t. former divorce lawyer
I've seen it a lot. Especially the middle aged American man and filipino 22 year old mold. b***h is gone ten minutes after the green card arrives in the mail, off to party with the other flips while she pines after Chad.
Thanks! Any other advice, besides the idiots saying to give all my money to friends or put it in secret crypto?
She's Vietnamese, met while I was living in Nam. I went into all my relationships there with lot of scrutiny. She's not the type that gets into relationships for citizenship. She's not a c**t or anything, but after 6 years with her, it just feels like it's not working anymore.
>She's Vietnamese
Christ almighty. Don't tell me you're one of those White boys who despise White women because you think they're all man-hating gold diggers and shoot for Asian women instead because you expect them to be submissive/subservient. If that's the case, you just learned a bitter lesson.
Fricks sake anon get an attorney if you think your assets are this important. Half of this place has never had a woman or serious assets worth protecting. Do you really want to waste your time on ill advised advice from them?
Is she hot and skinny? You can pass her off to me and I'll distract her while you get everything agreed upon. I'm in Dallas btw
>She's vietnamese
>Met while I was living in Nam
Anon talks like he was deployed to Vietnam in 1970. If you're living in Vietnam in the current year, let alone marry a Vietnamese woman, you're a sexpat. Even if you went there for work, you're a sexpat (who'd live in Vietnam for work).
So what you are saying is you still don't have a child?
She used you to get into the country
Get a lawyer NOW dipshit
Holy shit. Are you me? Married in the summer of 22 and she was a foreign national. She was here on PR in the leaf land. She left me and the country in a fit of rage and we are thinking of getting divorce. This divorce is going to frick me because she has no assets and only I do. Count your blessings though anon. I don't think America is cucked like Canada where we have to split everything 50 50
Buy some kosher dildos and save your marriage goy
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
take all of the stuff that she will probably take from you, cash it all, gamble it on eesee, 100x that, get better lawyers, frick her, easy
Get a lawyer moron. You might keep up to half depending on how good your lawyer is.
I need to break up with my gf she's basically a net negative. It feels like I adopted a teenager. The thing that gets me the most is
>drinks and hides it from me
I just don't see how she could mother my children.
Why haven't you broke up with her yet? What's holding you back? Just do it.
you're white, huh? you deserve everything you're going to get
100% of divorces start with marriage
holy shit i'm about to propose to a foreign national. bros this thread is making me sweat. but she's such a fricking sweetheart and i can't imagine my life without her. but i'm scared shitless she'll do this to me. we've had some WICKED blowout fights that have made me spiral hard.
if you get married nowadays you have to be actually moronic. unless shes a 10/10 in every aspect. the law favours women, and she can frick you over on a whim
don't bring them to america, it's actually that simple
> we've had some WICKED blowout fights that have made me spiral hard.
Details, now
Damn anon, im sorry to hear you were involved in a boating accident in neutral waters while trying to lightning swap monero back to fiat to pay your good wife her well deserved share! Hopefully your wife and her attorney have good scuba diving teams
how can one shield himself before the marriage happens? is there any clause that prevents total financial ruin?
prenup agreement, signed and notarized, explicitly stating separating of assets prior to marriage
if she doesn't want to sign the prenup, you know all that you need to know about her motivations
Jannys banned me for racism again. It’s all so tiresome.
you should date an 18 year old and then train her to be a good wife. marrying women after 25 is a terrible idea
Here's what you want to do asap. Transition to becoming a woman and change your legal name to a woman's. Also convert to Judaism is possible.
The court can't discriminate against a beautiful trans woman, they are gonna end up siding with you and making your cis wife pay you alimony.
Move all your assets into an irrevocable trust in a country outside of US jurisdiction like in the Cook Islands. Courts in America won't be able to get anything in the trust
https://www.assetprotectionplanners.com/
I just can't get over the idea that some Cook Islands Black folk aren't just going to appropriate everything in the "trust" for themselves, tbh.
What did you do? Why divorce?
Don’t get divorced and you won’t lose anything.
I never argue with my wife. It's always "I'm sorry", "yes, love", "as soon as we have the money, we will do it". She has pnly been mad at me a small handful of times. You just need to listen and identify needs and expectations before they are brought up.
How do you figure that? Does your exwife get 100% of your assets? I thought the rule was 50%.
Falling for the marriage meme is a good sign you're an NPC. Player characters can't have sex it's not a function of the game
divorce rates are just like inflation rates
fricking high and pathetic, what a fricking tragedy
at least truflation posts their cpi indexes but imagine they posted the divorce ones LOL
Put all your money into Monero before you start dating and never tell anyone about it. Foolproof.
no thanks homie, i already went for jizzlord
my cum is thick but the blood pumping my wiener is thicker
Still i respect your position, damn i wish more coins had/were waifus
bump