Is he right? Is it worth living in big cities to figure out business trends, build connections, etc?
Is he right? Is it worth living in big cities to figure out business trends, build connections, etc?
Is he right? Is it worth living in big cities to figure out business trends, build connections, etc?
yes
What made it such an improvement specifically to your life? Just because there are more bars and social gatherings? Is it really worth spending money on all that if you're not already rich?
It's the people.
Like the OP pic says, people in mid tier cities are dumb and have no goals or ambition. Very boring to talk to and can't relate to them.
Are the people that different? I grew up in towns with 50k people (military) and the people were often really friendly, although religious. Moved a few years ago to somewhere with 500k people (Arizona) and it's the same low ambition but people are very rarely friendly. If anything I notice most people have dead looks in their eyes and often, people try really hard to be clones of another to "thrive". Exact same haircuts, outfits, everything. At least in small towns people find joy with their families and low stress commutes and LCOL etc. But then again, I never lived in a genuinely big city.
Yes the people are very different.
In London I found it so easy to make friends and they were working in fields like finance, music, tech. Always had good conversations about interesting topics. Always got invited out to go to interesting places and events on weekends.
Now in my mid tier city it's kind of like you describe, people dumb, dead eyes, clones of each other (making it here means being a slightly better clone than everyone else). Just depressing. I haven't made any real friends here, even though I'm back in my own country.
I want to leave and move to a top tier city again.
Thanks for the insight anon. Maybe I'll try moving to one of these cities one day, but for now thinking i'll just move back to a small town for LCOL and dump everything to crypto. At least back in my home town it wasn't so depressing and even though no one has ambition, I found myself happier around the simple folk and fresh air. Ideally one has both access to top tier cities and simple secluded towns imo.
Don't listen to this guy
, all of that shit's only worth something to you if you're a homosexual. I've lived all over the world, and I'll tell you you're not missing out on anything. I can understand you thinking you need to go to shitty bars with a bunch of homosexual "friends" who make shit music if you're in your early twenties, but once you hit your late twenties, early thirties and done all the drugs, and seen all the bars with all kinds of homosexuals you'll understand how great it is to slow down in a small town. I'm in a place with 30k people now and it's the BEST place I've ever lived. Natural beauty all around me, I live in a big house for the same amount of money I spent on small studio apartments. Small city vibes are awesome, you tend to see the same people at events, and around town, it's like living in an RPG. It's fricking awesome. If you're still in your partyboy, discovering yourself phase you wouldn't get what I'm saying if you came here though.
How did you find the right small town to live? Near family or did you just travel to find a hidden gem? I'm personally looking at pic related Durango, CO.
>I live in a big house for the same amount of money I spent on small studio apartments
did you buy the home or just rent it? Also debating buying one with a mortgage or just renting an apartment + pouring the rest to btc/link for a long term bet
>How did you find the right small town to live?
Research, and you have to go there before making the move no matter how many Redditors and Youtubers say the place is awesome. I almost got fricked right before finding the place I'm at now. It was another town 50 kilometers from here. You couldn't find a single bad remark about it online, only positives. So I was almost renting a place there via email and phone calls, but decided to have my girl check it out. When she got there she said it was the most backwards piece of shit she had ever seen, so she went to another town near there to spend the night before taking a plane back to our old city, and while she was there she explained our situation to the locals, and they told her about where I live now. She rented a car the next day and checked this place out and fell in love with it. Told me about it, and a month after we moved here. Now I wake up and thank God for my life every single day, because this placed is beyond great.
>did you buy the home or just rent it
I rent. At least at where I'm at in life it's better to have my money on-hand than stuck on a house.
where is that pic? pennsylvania?
found the israelite
Is this homosexual on twitter right or wrong? PLEASE HELP ME BIZ I SUCK SO MUCH wiener CUM HAS REPLACED MY BRAIN
He's wrong, the big cities don't have shit to offer to a decent person. The natural beauty of the countryside beats anything the city has to offer. So what that there aren't bars open all night, and all variety of drugs available. Food delivery, Uber, all of that vapid shit. You don't any of that to be happy.
>trying to lump Miami in with NYC and LA
This guy moved to Miami as an adult and is desperate for people to take his city seriously.
>The natural beauty of the countryside beats anything the city has to offer.... You don't any of that to be happy.
Sure, when you're trying to optimize for your own happiness (and you should, to some extent) you can achieve it in the countryside just as well as in the city, it only depends on what you value. But the OP specifically asked about the ability to build connections and figure out business trends, in which case being around more people with more varied opinions is undeniably an asset.
This pasta has always been just "people do things that I can't or don't want to" with no actual value judgment. If it said something about never knowing your neighbors or denying the realities of crime trends, it might have made a point, but instead it's nothing but gay seething.
That's subjective as well. Being an anon on IQfy and on the chan put me ahead of everyone I knew, specially glorified businessmen and other powerful men I knew in the city. Also looking for trends is for gays, you if you want to make something cool for yourself you have to invoke it from within.
miami is better than nyc and la, gay. cope harder
ya this is why i moved to austin
If you can't make connections and evolve in any environment you are inferior. It's cuckoldry to depend on a huge city for your growth.
interesting people flock to places with other interesting people it's a numbers game. ya go ahead and try to meet some cool people in omaha or scottsdale while 99% of the population are boring and stupid
lol you have been watching way too much TV. I think its the complete opposite of what you are saying. City gays are very conformist, and have a womans mentality of trying to fit into society rather than make society fit into their standards. NPC gays everywhere with the same opinions, the same tattoos, the same fricking weird beta way of communicating with the intent of being as non threatening and non polarizing as possible. On the opposite end of the spectrum you have swamp people. Isolated rural people who do their own thing, march to the beat of their own drum. Tend to have developed a good sense of humor because they don't have endless entertainment at their fingertips. Don't give as much of a frick about judgment from other people.
>On the opposite end of the spectrum you have swamp people. Isolated rural people who do their own meth
FTFY.
Are you seriously comparing Omaha to Scottsdale? You are actually too poor and moronic to live in Scottsdale
Shut up zonie. Every city has homeless people and Black folk.
>seething flyover yokel
>Imagine giving two single fricks about social media
>he says, unironically on a social media website
>Social media website
Interesting...what's my username? What content am I personally serving up? How am I monetizing it? Look back at my post history please...how's my profile looking?
I've noticed this trend with you Zoomer homosexuals. Whenever you get called out on your social media addiction: you just pivot to changing the definition of what that site is and project onto others. I swear, you gays probably consider IRC to be a "social media website". Fricking moronS
>Social Media
>noun
>noun: social media; plural noun: social medias
>websites and applications that enable users to create and share content or to participate in social networking.
you can cope however you want homosexual, if you don't like it maybe go outside and touch grass
>i-i swear I'm from the c-coast, not some flyover shithole!
kek imagine being this salty that you were btfo
Do you have Down syndrome? I’m not from a coast I hate those homosexuals. What’s pathetic is that you aren’t but wish you were.
what's actually pathetic is coping about your boring ass life in some flyover shithole by constantly seething about cities. Maybe one day you'll let go of the jealousy and bitterness and actually attempt to understand why people want to live in places that actually have futures.
lmao struck a nerve, did I? IQfy is social media. Facts don't care about your feelings.
Shut up homosexual
>why people want to live in places that actually have futures.
>NY
>LA
futures
nobody tell him
>live in places that actually have futures
do you think LA and NYC will get better or worse?
lmao
>reject the city and move to the countryside
>raise middle class kids
>they move to the city just like you did
the only acceptable path is to make so much money that your family rises above it all
>the only acceptable path is to make so much money that your family rises above it all
this is the correct answer, cities only exist for the very wealthy and connected to better farm the masses of people
its a big playground but it isnt for you
This anon
is 100% right and has completely eviscerated your homosexual zoomer ass.
God, I hate zoomers so much. Can you pussies just stick to twitter and tik-tok and leave us men alone.
Stop coming here!
This site wasn't built for your kind or is for your kind!
Go dox your entire life on social media you zoomer broccoli hair pussy
Aside from literal gays who are too poor to leave, no one in AZ wants to be some c*astie homosexual. You’re probably seething for your studio apartment in LA
>You're coping
>Goes to a fricking dictionary website
You're the one coping homosexual.
Typical Zoomer projection yet again...so, what social networking am I conducting on IQfy? Networking with you? What about the other anonymous users?
Hey, go look up what content I'm personally posting throughout IQfy dude. No? Wow, interesting...totally different than any other social media site...no profile, no centralized feed, or anything centralized to view content on a user-by-user basis throughout the website...yet, IQfy is apparently "social media" because you grabbed some definition from a dictionary site that was written by some moron Boomer.
Shut the frick up you NPC bootlicking homosexual. LEAVE AND GO BACK TO WHATEVER NORMIE SHITHOLES YOU FREQUENT.
There is no social networking on IQfy
Speak for yourself I'm gaining so many youtube subscribers
>Zonie wishing he was a coastie
Next level pathetic
Why do white liberals wonder why other white people don't like them? Aren't they supposed to be intelligent?
>FRICK YOU! YOU POOR STUPID FLYOVER LOSER, YOU'RE NOTHING WITHOUT US
>NOOOOO YOU CANT SHIT ON POOR IGNORANT MINORITIES! STOP BEING RACIST! CLASS SOLIDARITY!
>FRICK YOU POOR BACKWOODS moron!
I can't believe those people hate citygay liberals! It's a mystery.
They're in a constant state of status anxiety and paranoia from being surrounded by so many people of all walks of life. Being a citygay is one track to becoming a sociopath.
They're not very nice and just as hateful as rural people. Their hatred is just acceptable. I'm not even rural. I'm from the suburbs in a major metropolitan area on the coast, but it amazes me that they can't understand why their rhetoric would offend Americans in rural or flyover areas. It's braindead. Especially considering they're go out of their way not to offend a poor non white person. Obsessed with the feelings of non whites, but absolutely zero empathy for white people who don't live in the city or on the coast.
Rural gay here. It's true. But I don't care. It's comfy out here on my many acres that I own outright
Imagine aspiring to be an over socialized hipster homosexual lmao
That post reads like massive cope, did he move out to gay central for school and lose his highschool sweetheart to a low IQ tradie.
>outskirt places like AZ
lol why are >we getting lumped in with fricking Ohio?
literally the 5th largest city in US
DUDE i just LOVE the hustle and bustle of the big city, it’s so DYNAMIC and makes me feel like i’m in one of my favourite TV SHOWS. you should totally come on down to my studio apartment, it’s got EXPOSED RED BRICK walls and everything, we can crack open a nice hoppy ipa or three and get crazy watching some cartoons on adult swim! and dude, dude, DUDE, we have GOTTA go down to the barcade- listen here, right, it’s a BAR where us ADULTS who do ADULTING can go DRINK. BUT!!!! it’s also an ARCADE like when we were kids, so we can play awesome VIDEO GAMES, without dumb kids bothering us. speaking of which megan and i have finally decided to tie the knot- literally -we’re both getting snipped tomorrow at the hospital, that way we can save money to spent more on ourselves and our FURBABIES. i’m frickin JACKED man, i’m gonna SLAM this craft beer and pop open another one!!!
Found the boring unlikeable homosexual from Omaha lmao
>room temp IQ boring homosexual ass NPC redditoid can't recognize ancient copypasta
no surprises there
Go away chudley
>never once mentioned troons in my post
>used a funny ACK jpg because it's funny and makes libtards seethe
>seething libtard gives me a (You) just as predicted
heh
kino
If you believe this why are you on IQfy and not on whatever gay normie website with the cool kids?
“Fitting in” with strangers is not a life goal. There are much more important things. The guy sounds like such a coping loser. I’m sure he is quadruple vaxxed and an ally to the trans community.
>I’m sure he is quadruple vaxxed and an ally to the trans community.
You guessed correctly, he admitted to doing gay for pay as part of his hustle and pics of his with an old guy surfaced.
Lmao the guys he went to high school with found out about his gay porn and all shit on him. Such transparent coping
To be fair it takes a very high IQ to leave your small town and go gay for pay in Miami.
Not that I didn't care about his opinion prior but now I just feel bad for him. Lmao
No wonder he couldn't go home the gay jokes would never end.
Americans are mentally ill.
Thank you. What the frick happened to this site? Imagine giving two single fricks about social media, much less reading posts on there. Spoiler alert: if you're on social media... YOU'RE THE NORMIE YOU STUPID homosexual. GET THE FRICK OUTTA HERE NORMIES REEEEEEEE
>“Fitting in” with strangers is not a life goal
It's a medium for escalating the social ladder or at least getting well paid, moron. I don't care about this shit but you have to be really stupid to not understand what this thread is about.
Isn’t that the gay for pay guy that got into a beef with Top G(ay) Tate and apologized when Tate sent hitmans to his parents house?
Homosexuality all around.
Very true.
I moved to London and it was the best time of my life. Moved home and have regretted it since.
>most of the interesting things to do are localized to big cities, or are at least much more available there
>most of the high paying jobs are localized to big cities
>to enjoy interesting things and pursue a high paying job you probably have to go to the big city to get most of what you want, or accept making a compromise on what you expect to get out of life
>cue increasingly bizarre arguments that mostly boil down to trying to avoid accepting the above
this is city gays coping that jobs are leaving and urban centers are dying alongside fiat
The damned always choose the broad path and choose to be with the damned who will perish in the Lake of Fire.
While only the chosen few make it
Yes, but
boring is coded for doesn't do coke
lol, "fitting in" in Chicago/NYC/LA/Miami is about the most NPC normoid thing you could possibly ever do. Repulsively normal and sterile
>ruralgays have no ambition to become billionaires
true
>citygays have more ambition to become billionaires
true
>citygays are more likely to make it
false, they are just as moronic as ruralgays, they just work in offices and make a higher wage. per capita, they're just as unlikely to make it
>t. has lived in both the city and rural
I've met more interesting and wealthy people on the ski lift and in the wilderness backcountry than 10 years of living in DC.
They don't live there they're traveling
Not true, every tourist here is a leftist soi npc or a mouth breathing moron.
>cool
hes talking about narcissism and psychopathy
>all these seething bumpkins at my posts
you morons realize that with every (You) i get your literally proving my point?
Phoenix is a flyover shithole and if you're unironically trying to imply that it isn't, you need to have a nice day immediately
I don’t take career advice from men who have to resort to gay pornography to pay the bills.
Isn’t the meta to live in suburbs just outside of mega cities? Bask in the fruits of suburbia while avoiding big city woes. Maybe go out for a weekend every now and then.
>Big 3
>NYC Miami LA
hey guys guess which homosexual lives in Miami with all the cool beaners
Big cities certainly have utility and can be a good place to move to, but as you may be able to tell from the drama queen way that he writes, this guy is a literal gay prostitute who does gay for pay
>Is it worth living in big cities to figure out business trends, build connections, etc?
In theory yes, but you'll find that a lot of "business people" are insufferable and it's nothing like how it used to be with business deals. Now everything is commodified with 3 lawyers involved so it's a dog and pony show among people already in a high station.
You can get lucky and be able to provide value to someone with a semi-specialized skillset, but the majority of businessmen will outsource whatever you do unless you need a clearance or can do it with more value than anyone available online.
To be cool and fit in. This bloke must be a huge homosexual to not fit in and make lifetime friends in a rural environment. Rural people are by far the best people to hang around with and talk shit with. City c**ts are insufferable as a general rule
I am dumber for having read that morons thoughts. Frick you OP and frick you jannies.
depends on the business. you don't need to be anywhere for most of them
scottsdale and paradise valley has more wealth than multiple large cities combined, dude is poor
Moving from coastal Newport Beach to a small town was a huge mistake for me. The locals don't trust anyone under 3 generations of residence and talk shit nonstop like high schoolers in a locker room. They may not be homosexuals who suck wiener but they are homosexuals of the soul.
Why would you obsess over trying to Hustle in NYC when you can make more just sitting on crypto and tech stocks?
Its not about size, its about how "cosmopolitan" your social circle is. I can go to a ski lodge in the mountains of colorado and get better business insights with the millionaire boomers there than a social party in NYC with a bunch of wagie tier morons.
If the opportunity presents itself, nearly every young adult is better off moving to a big city. The 2 most important things for young adults are career progression and dating. If you aren't in a big city you will be crippled in both of these aspects.
I've lived in smaller towns most of my life and it's awful. 90% of jobs here are retail and restaurants. There's barely any cushy office jobs and, of the few that exist, the pay is much lower than the city and raises are a rare occurrence. Any moron in a big city can make $100k+.
Dating is even worse. If you try to boot up tinder, you're only going to find at most 10 actual, attractive women in your area. If you're lucky, and there aren't any chads in your small town, the women will just increase the range and date some chad in a city an hour or 2 away. Meanwhile you can't do the same because every girl in the city can easily date exclusively within the city.