Is it financially and morally correct to stay at your parents home to save as much money as you can, enabling you to purchase a home with lower interest and in less time?
I mean, I have a relative high-paying job and the advice from my friends is always the same, that I should move out. My girlfriend doesn't care, but at the same time, I feel like I'm somewhat restricting both myself and my girlfriend because of this situation (I can only spend the night at her place, etc.). I am in my late 20s btw
Your parents are like 60 years old. Get the frick out of their house and let them enjoy the small bit of life they still have left.
Acshually my father is already 70. Sometimes he even cooks for me (just sometimes).
The point is, I need to suffer (and they too) two more years by living with them and then I'll be able to buy my precious home without too much hassle. I'll be 31 by that time.
Post hand. Nah, we know you are a white urbanite who enjoys onions lattes.
Unironically if his parents wanted grandkids they needed to actually HELP him. This is always the thing I see- parents never HELP their kids, then are like "why is his shit fricked so hard". Bonus if they vote for policies like "discriminate against men to help women" and then wonder why their son can't just MAN UP.
Fricking subhuman boomer morons.
This.
Dad's gonna nut in her and help get her pregnant. Who cares if you're cucked by your own dad, right?
The other way around genius. Get your kid a job in the city. Pay his rent for a year. Tell him he has to save money. Get him established and getting girls. Offer him money for a downpayment on a house in a few year when he's engaged so he can start a family. None of this is hard. All the bootstraps shit and then being shocked it's not 1978 is baffling.
wut
Most boomers can barely get their shit own shit together, unfortunately. Better off being totally independent, then circling back around to help them out so they have a nice last quarter of life.
>financially correct
Yes.
>morally correct
Who cares.
>My girlfriend doesn't care
Good.
Most of the cultures in the world promote living together as a family, with your parents and other relatives and all taking care of each other.
I lived with parents until 30. Retired a few years later because I dumped all my money saved up into crypto.
Results may vary. Social life was non-existent as well, as it destroyed my relationship with a girl. But otherwise it was nice. Enjoyed spending time at home with family.
you have parents/?
Yes. I'm in the same boat, and it would be my only option that leads to a house before I'm like 35. But I don't think it's good for everyone, you run the chance of hating each other by the time you move out if it takes too long. I'm planning on helping them with whatever moronic debts they have, leave, and just become a rentoid for a while longer.
Moving out is cope for manchildren so ashamed about their sex having that they would gladly pay a israelite thousands a month in order to frick overweight 5/10 prostitutes every 3rd weekend.
Here's a question for you. How do you think you came to be on this earth?
Do you think your parents don't know what sex is? Do they think that no adults have or should have sex?
A simple conversation, like an adult, will save you hundreds of thousands of dollars over your life.
They know you're an adult and if you're worth a frick, you should be looking for the right woman. Hell they probably beg God for you to find one so they can have grandchildren.
Tl;dr Grow up. Adults have sex. Your parents know this.
Are you paying them rent? Are you helping with chores? Is your presence a burden or a boon? You should be improving their quality of life.
If you love your parents, if your parents love you and your gf, you should definitely stay together. If you need a lil hanky panky with your gf, go and rent a hotel for a couple of days.
Simple as. If your gf loves you, she won't mind.
Does your dad fap listening to you fricking your gf? I'll bet he does.
Every single man lives iwth his parents and every woman accepts any price for a studio apartment, driving costs way up, while being employed at fak jobs that pay 70k starting to 'recruit' or 'human resources'.
Clown world I'm tired of it.
lol you can just feel the failure of a “man” who typed this shit. No you homosexual or worthless trash because you can barely hold a job at McDonald’s. Go have a nice day, nobody will miss you.
ive had 3somes living with my family, just dont tell them..who gives a frick ,if youre a good boi u save your money and suck up your pride
i’m 25 and staying with a relative
it feels shitty not gonna lie, but it’s temporary
it's still better than starting your 20s with nothing
I had to beg my landlord to give me 2 months free rent because I still didn't have a job, only after 1 year I managed to pay him with what I saved with VINU