Which authors should I read to stop giving so much of a frick about what people think of me? I live for the validation of others and I'm miserable.
 Thalidomide Vintage Ad Shirt $22.14 |
 UFOs Are A Psyop Shirt $21.68 |
Thalidomide Vintage Ad Shirt $22.14 |
I'm starting to think no one smart posts here.
Frequency of posts is inversely correlated to intelligence. The smartest IQfy users are strict lurkers.
Nonsense. If a smart person rarely speaks it means they're not asking questions or exploring new things; so they may have been smart last week, but the person who isn't afraid to speak and be proven wrong will be smarter than them this week, for having carried on gaining experience where the false-smartie stopped gaining experience under the belief that they knew all there was to know. Stagnancy.
Are you just now figuring this out? For frick sakes, no one in IQfy reads.
ikr i've been trying to have a serious thread about my favorite popup book - you know the one with the smiling man who goes to church and meets jesus - and all these effort-posters wanna do is talk about off-topic things, like Montaignes books on child development.
buncha sneeds
Who's the freckled lady?
http://kitty-kats.net/threads/sabrina-lynn-rents-a-lambo-63-pictures-1920px.2692556/
oh wow, thank you.
may whichever god you believe in bless you
BPD chick who moved to Cali and back.
I find it weird that there's such amazing looking bartenders in some places, but nonetheless you shouldn't fall for dating them
>BPD chick
You mean she's diagnosed bipolar? How do you know?
Saw a 15 minute insta rant of her where she cried a lot and told her story of moving to Cali for modelling but then having breakdowns and moving back to nowhere and being a waiter for 15 bucks an hour. It's amazing how some people can't handle the easy mode life. I suppose psychological breakdown really is a sickness. Imagine being a sporty big tiddy redhead and not getting anything done in life
She could just get orbiters to pay for all her desires, be some stupid Twitch thot, eventually get with a sugar daddy and live life on easy mode.
thots...
What does a man need to live the equivalent easy-mode life?
everything
Rich family/parents. Even then it’s not guaranteed.
my family are upper-middle class at this point but they're retired and very miserly. so I live in squalor because of it.
>my family are upper-middle class
how many acres do they own?
Originally her family name was Zishman.
72 but they had to sell some to the local park to cut down on costs.
>owns land
alright, you're qualified as middle class. we just have to check these things, anon, you understand.
Yeah, I get it. But I don't live with them, you see, I live in a rundown apartment on the edge of town and am on food stamps.
A calm rational mind and a modicum of work ethic and talents.
It sounds repellent to me, and no doubt to a lot of women
That's interesting. I suppose what the other anon said is the female equivalent of saying "beat the shit out of your wife if she doesn't like it when you talk about your mistress."
>It sounds repellent to me, and no doubt to a lot of women
women frick Black folk and dogs, there's nothing repellent to them except the prospect of a righteous life.
Well as a man you can't attain sit at home and still have your body be worth a years income just because
6'2"+
8.5/10+ face
8.5"+ dick
Natural charisma
Rich family
Deep voice
a life worth living is a life of struggle
you aren't living life if life cannot change you through your experiences
the guy who seemingly lives on easy mode might actually be living a life of struggle, or he might be coddled by the womb, and so he isn't a true man
Honestly, there isn't an equivalent. All men must put in the effort, some more than others but it's a great deal of effort compared to women nonetheless.
The whole internet thinks she's pretty and some of the sets show most of her areolas and even her nipples as well as a few where you can see pretty much most of her vegana.
So she should have just started doing the Belle Delphine thing and did teasing onlyfans that would lead to nudity later.
Lauren Philips is the only fat redhead titcow out there right now and she's old and plastic.
She blew it.
>Lauren Phillips
>fat
whaat are you kidding, she's built perfectly.
"Modelling" is a euphemism for prostitution. Not wrong to want to escape it.
I C A N F I X H E R
Something like, "wah wah I don't wanna be a prostitute in this way I wanna be a prostitute in this other way," I'm assuming.
>Belle Delphine
Too much effort tho, who has time to do that shit? That's like having to baby sit a thousand half-a-tards at once, every day. If she did it right, I mean.
>Lauren Philips
don't forget Summer Hart
We need way more devicebondage shoots from those two...
BPD is short for Borderline Personality Disorder not Bipolar Disorder anon. Two entirely different conditions.
Never mind, I just checked her socials kek.
>"I took my antidepressant and skipped on my anti-psychotic. I’ll see ya when the mania ends."
holy rip
https://www.instagram.com/itssabrinalynn/?hl=en
Whew she hit the wall
The wall takes all
She could just... eat less, do some exercise and still be quite hot?
you underestimate how weak-willed women are
Gorgeous.
You troony and pedo kids need to swallow your tongues
bro she has gotten fricking fat. have some standards
That's Belinda Zishy, the Heiress of the Zishy Empire
pessoa
• 48 Laws of Power is an absolute First Start. It's a quick, fast read or a detailed read if you bother with it and will improve your life. You just don't get full autistic with it. Obviously, you are not some medieval courtier, but you think abstractly of the laws and how they can somewhat apply to a situation.
• People Can't Drive You Crazy if You Don't Give Them the Keys.
• No More Mr. Nice Guy
Just realize that other people aren't really worth shit, then you'll stop caring about them.
>Just realize that other people aren't really worth shit, then you'll stop caring about them.
This only works if you don't follow the logic to realize that your life is dictated by the social structures of the objectively worthless and then have to think about how best to ingratiate yourself to others that have overinflated opinions of themselves to avoid being ostracized
It's basically trading one complex for another
Meditations.
I look like her as a guy
Haha redhead privileges don't extend to guys, you're all horrid
Read Walden by Thoreau
probably the best answer, maybe the New England Transcendentalists as a whole
48 Laws of Power will get your thinking in the right place
Camus
The stranger
my diary
You can't escape from the need for recognition, selfhood and identity is actualised in the recognition of others, you correctly desire recognition because recognition is how selfhood is realised. Don't make the mistake of ignoring or denying this instinct.
Read Hegel and other to understand this.
>Intro to Hegelian Recognition with the Incel example
>IEP: Social and Political Recognition
https://iep.utm.edu/recog_sp/
>Stanford: Recognition
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/recognition/
what about a mirror?? not enough?
The mirror doesn't have a mind to cognise you, so you can't re-cognise it, nor it re-cognise you cognising it. Your "I" must form itself by the encounter with the "not-I" of the external world, and then realise itself as an "I" first through the establishment of the "I-ness" of other people amongst the "not-I", and then having the other "I(s)" within society acknowledging your "I-ness".
You are the centre of your universe. You do not need other entities to validate you. Your existence is validation. Just be.
Your being, your be-ness, is only actualised in the process of recognition with others beings in a society. Without recognition there is no "be".
more kojeve than hegel. lord & bondsman in hegel is about the failure of recognition.
Seek the validation of God.
>Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
>Fat
>Redhead
>Freckles
>Dark coloured eyes
>Wide nose
>Big lips
>Decent breasts
Yup. She's whitetrash and she's definitely been Blacked before.
>fat
homosexual
>homosexual
>t. American
Gays are nasty what can I say
Nah. You're an Amerimutt because you think not liking fat chicks makes you a homosexual. Enjoy your 4th of July Hotdogs and Hamburgers though, fatass 🙂
Obsessed. Get a hobby for fricks sake. And not one that implores you to push in the turds of toddlers
>anti Incel screeds written by Hegeltards
Schopenhauer gets more and more right every single fricking day
Schopenhauer was a unloved sadsack who lead and died a miserable waste of a life. His ideas are how to make a hell of heaven, an instruction manual to live life swinging from suffering to boredom.
Truth hurts doesn't it?
She’s not fat in the OP but she’s definitely a chunker now
Still absolutely would though, she’s cute either way
>fat
She's perfectly adequate, you tasteless childfricker
Six Pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Branden. It will give you the answer you need but not the one you necessarily want. It won't make you into a confident butthole, but something better.
bukowksi
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Frick.
The Stoics, the Bible.
meditations and thoughts of marcus aurelius antoninus (stoics in general, maybe Seneca)
Republic (plat0/aristotle)
Thanks for all the answers, I'm already reading Meditations on a daily basis, I'll look into suggestions.
Wallowing in autism is retreat and cope, not a solution to your problems in reconciling your self to the world.
What do you suggest?
To acknowledge you need recognition from others to form yourself and to do the needful to achieve that recognition instead of creating new mummies skirts to hide behind.
I'm not saying the opposite, what makes you think that?
I engage with the world, I have friends, I changed jobs to go back to the office instead of being remote, I'm more social than the average IQfyner.
I just want to stop always waiting for external validation for doing things, stop caring too much about other people's constant validation, a friend of mine actually gave me that advice and told me to stop searching for approval so much.
I think you misunderstand my struggle there, I'm in no way searching to "disconnect myself from all external recognition".
Autism is literally not a disability and "cope" is not real
>learning to become a stoic is wallowing in autism
>wallowing in autism is a bad thing
Yes and yes.
F Gardner
Models get raped, the image they try to sell of the glamour lifestyle is fake, just another facet of hyperreality.
Good for her for abandoning that life before it was too late.