When you find out a woman is an avid reader is it a red flag? Or do you have to investigate what she’s actually been reading? What I’m asking is…is a woman that’s an avid reader generally have certain negative social traits and attitudes? Tia
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When you find out a woman is an avid reader is it a red flag? Or do you have to investigate what she’s actually been reading? What I’m asking is…is a woman that’s an avid reader generally have certain negative social traits and attitudes? Tia
Every action of a woman is means to attention. This is the only maxim of relevance.
This is opposite to what I experienced. Women I’ve known bury themselves in books as a way to cope and do not want to be bothered. They want the opposite of attention.
Very Hegelian indeed.
Very true.
They also love to bury themselves in delusions. The more romantic and idealistic the book is, the better.
>This is opposite to what I experienced. Women I’ve known who dress in loose clothes as a way to cope and do not want to be bothered. They want the opposite of attention.
They don't want YOUR attention, except insofar as telling simps to frick off inflates their ego.
This is the worst type. What they're after is prince charming to rescue them from their plight
>This is the worst type.
Both extremes are as bad. Have you tried communicating with a Tinder prostitute? Bumble prostitutes are even worse.
One is delusional the other true to her nature. I strongly prefer honest prostitutes over stuck-up ones.
women are intellectual gooners, they read porn books.
while you cry and stay awake at 3 am doing pushups because you got stressed and fapped, THEY are having orgasms every hour
Nah, this is a response from someone inexperienced to women that are avid readers. I don’t doubt there are women like this though. Or even that all women are occasionally like that. But I know women that aren’t reading porn shit.
No you don't
Are you zoomers really crying because you touched your dick now?
its a modern problem, it brings me immense shame and i realize how little self control i have
abstinence makes me feel really well and focused
though i must say the whole no-fap culture is kind of silly
Im sure most anons will forget about this problem once they get a gf
I tried doing NNN in 2020 just to see if I could. Having proven to myself I can, I don't see the need to do it again.
I've successfully abstained for months, but Christ the guilt you feel when you break that streak im not sure why it makes me feel bad i know its a natural thing but its just a deep rooted shame
I'm just happy i've not fallen to the vices of society eg drinking smoking
A woman being into reading is only a cause for concern when she is that one woman out of a hundred or thousand who reads real literature and does it seriously.
Why would that be cause for concern though? What about a combo of junk and “real literature”. I don’t get your point
Women who read dumb pulpy shit are just normal women. Women who read real literature and aren't just the basic b***h goodreads reviewer kind of reader are usually defective emotionally and sexually and try to compensate for it intellectually. They almost always look four out of ten too, and far worse than that, have really bad attitudes.
this guy went to grad school, alright
I object to the myth of the autistic bookish woman. She does not exist, if she ever did. All the women at grad school are happy giggling bawds who can't seem to get over the sheer elation of getting to prolong being in high school indefinitely. Women in college are basically just unemployed irresponsible girls having lunch with friends every day and getting railed in the shitter every night. They do not love their subject, at most they will engage with it lazily to assert some identity on twitter in order to feel good or to be part of a certain social set.
For a woman to buck against this utter paradise for the female brain, she'd have to be truly anomalous. Expecting a woman at grad school today to actually study and suffer for her (ostensibly) chosen subject is like expecting a 13 year old boy given an unlimited harem of 10/10 women and infinite no-consequence risk-free methamphetamines and video games to "better himself" and "balance his hedonism with supererogation." It ain't gonna happen.
I see no contradiction here. Nobody claimed genuine interest, but merely a way of compensating poor performance in women's milieu. The amount of ugly female phd students in my stem department was astonishing. You could find a chad here and there among the males; it was skewed but definitely not one-sided. The women, however, that was a whole another beast. All either fat, ugly, or c**ty. No exceptions.
Maybe in STEM, I'll grant you that. I like Asian STEM PhDs because they are often asexual. However it is still about 75/25. The most asexual, apparently Brontean/Dickinsonian woman these days will always reveal after a while that she has been self-medicating her neuroses with regular Tinder sex for 5+ years, and feels as much shame about this as you feel for jerking off occasionally.
>I like Asian STEM PhDs because they are often asexual.
That sounds extremely gay.
It's very nice. There's nothing like an autistic Chinese woman who is distant enough from her own culture that she isn't a thoughtless face-saving monkey, but distant enough from her white host culture that she maintains her instinctive Chinese arrogance and doesn't lyse and attain complete equilibrium with her surroundings, becoming merely a "twinkie" rich Californian Asian girl. Autistic Hong Kong and Taiwanese girls who are distant from their still predominately Chinese parents are usually your best bet. Their parents represent the home country, acting as a constant and omnipresent reminder of their estrangement from it. Thus they maintain the tension between their distant Chineseness and the equally distant gay white society. Often they will look at the rich Californian Asians and think "No matter what, at the very least, I can't become like that." In this state of adriftness between two worlds, they are forced to look inward and cultivate interiority. They essentially become honorary autistic men.
When you talk to them you can really sense that the waters of her mind are placid and stable in a way that women's minds never are. It's like taking a canoe out on a calm lake at dawn. She chooses what to show you of her depths, what to reflect, what to take into herself or reject. There are islands of stability, points of reference in her consciousness she can choose to take you to or not. Most women by comparison are like a shallow, muddy pond, with its sediments constantly stirred up by some moronic African children mucking about in it. You can almost see it behind a normal woman's eyes when you're talking to her, they aren't themselves in the same way you are, they are "subject" to themselves, two-tiered, always waiting for directives from the unaccountable Cartesian theater upstairs. Sometimes a voice comes from the balcony and says "We like this guy! No, we don't like him! We want chocolate! No, no... Wine! Wine and chocolate! CRY!! CRY NOW!!" This is what is really going on when you talk to a woman and she has that sort of notoriously female gormless & nonplussed hybrid expression on her face. If you look closely you can see her eyes micro-darting back and forth. This is her trying to maintain focus on both you and the voice at the balcony shouting down to her how she is supposed to feel, like a game of Simon Says and Twister rolled into one.
Talking to an autistic Chinese STEM girl is wonderful. She's a woman who is somehow also not a child, a living paradox. You get the sense that she has stable points in her consciousness, she's capable of thinking deductively and balancing contrary principles instead of just obeying the latest one she "saw" in her mind's eye. When you confront her with a logical dilemma she is capable of positively male levels of navigation between the Schylla and Charydbis of its terms, instead of merely careening between them and ramming into them and sputtering and babbling like a typical woman.
So you're just a schizoid who wants access to a hole with no strings attached. To each his own, anon.
My condolences to Scylla for your ramming into her.
Well written
B00kmark
I don't understand why women feel so ashamed of having sex. It is merely part of life
You would feel ashamed of getting dicked and dominated by a hairy gorilla while enjoying every second of it too, anon.
>I object to the myth of the autistic bookish woman.
Oh, we exist. My mum's one too (not diagnosed, because nobody was being diagnosed back in the 60s and 70s, but when I was diagnosed as a kid she did some research and concluded she almost certainly is too).
>Women who read real literature and aren't just the basic b***h goodreads reviewer kind of reader are usually defective emotionally and sexually and try to compensate for it intellectually. They almost always look four out of ten too, and far worse than that, have really bad attitudes.
So literally the average user of this board but female?
kek we will repopulate the earth
But how will we bring them together?
>IQfy
>reads
>are usually defective emotionally and sexually
You're right. Got a few more years until wizardesshood left. Will likely die an old maid.
you can always start reading slop and turn your life around
Imagine a normie guy who is into capeshit and has fun watching the newest Marvel slop versus an autistic guy who's into arthouse and looks down on everything else. Which one would you prefer your daughter to date?
Honestly, the marvel guy. Arthouse shit is for homosexual left wing morons. He’d probably abort my grandson or make him trans.
You're scared of thinking while watching movies anon?
Lol. I’d rather watch an actual moron make a film, and I have, than watch some dickhead larp as a moron to get some kinda gay art scene ass kissing accolades. I’ve seen every fricking cremaster and all that shit. Anyone into that shit is a customizable npc
Yeah well it's the same for girls who are into YA slop vs the classics.
Don't post your twitter here, troony.
found on reddit
Most YA is just popcorn, but there are at least a few good stories. (Of course, at least with Japanese YA what happens is one story comes along that actually has something meaningful to say and then a hundred other writers do superficial imitations that miss the point of what made it good; I'm less current with western YA to know what the trends in it are.)
>trannime gay admits to voraciously reading japanese YA for his fetishes
Yuck.
What? Where did I mention fetishes?
>thing
>:(
>thing Japan
:O
I literally said in the post most Japanese YA is derivative crap. I imagine Western YA is probably similar, a story with something meaningful to say every now and then and then a hundred superficial imitations that miss what made it good, but I'm not as up on trends in Western YA to say for sure.
No not really, it really just depends on what she’s reading that matters, though I wish most women were illiterate.
It doesn't matter what she reads, what matters is how she thinks and speaks.
Profound
Honestly, I tend to find it a red flag if someone, male or female, doesn't read. It just seems like a sign of someone with a profoundly boring character.
Have you ever tried using non-IQfy boards? They are only a few points above a person with literal Down syndrome. They can't follow basic arguments, they get upset if they have to read more than a sentence or two, they don't know anything about history or culture. They are proudly moronic. IQfy insulates us from the reality of the rest of IQfy. We are a tiny bubble of normalcy beneath a vast ocean of subhumanity.
Honestly, I'm not sure most people on IQfy are much better, but insofar as there's anyone intelligent here they're probably disproportionately likely to be on this board. I'm not sure how that's supposed to be a rebuttal to what I said though, unless you're suggesting that IQfy not only doesn't read but actually does it even less than other boards.
He's saying that no one on other boards are capable of reading at all; most of them are barely literate, or underage ESLs, who can't read a sentence as long or complex as this one, and I'm not exactly flexing vocabulary or the maze of subordinate clauses that makes them go on the defensive or ignore the post entirely. The average litpost reads like a brief, 30 page introduction in a romantic novel to them. It's bad. I won't sing the praises of IQfy, but most anons are capable of engaging with how reasonably intelligent individuals structure and present ideas, and often respond in kind with some shred of intellectual honestly and good faith.
Even the shitters that don't read seem able to grasp some esper of meaning from anons that do, which ain't great but it's something. The faster, more literate boards with good threads are probably the same anons.
I think anon is saying your original point filters about 90% of the population, and 60% of the population with a tropical IQ. Things are that dire.
Bitch, please, this board has its fair share of morons. The gazillionth Nietzsche threads are direct proof.
Really? I’m the complete opposite. I find reading extremely boring and people that read are very boring, especially while they’re reading. It’s a very low effort and low cost hobby so it’s easy to get into. The only readers I’ve met that are interesting end up being larpers, which obviously I lose interest in them when I find out they’re just stealing personality and stories from books they’ve read.
>I find reading extremely boring
Then what are you dong on the literature board?
I still read, but don’t enjoy it much because it’s boring. Rather be doing something.
So why do you do it?
To learn shit usually. Don’t do much reading for entertainment. It’s shit-tier entertainment imo. I think about some butthole writing all those words and the fricking ego he must have to think I’m gonna sit on my ass and read all this fictional shit he made up is mind blowing to me, it actually makes me laugh out loud thinking about it. Now turn a book into a movie and do all the work that it takes to make it good, that’s worth 1-2 hours of my time. If I want to use my imagination I will play my guitar or make some visual piece of art, I won’t larp off to some egomaniac’s writing.
another way of saying you have low verbal iq in a board full of people who are not convinced of your self delusion
Yah, no I don’t want high verbal iq. I kinda hate language and the way it controls people. I was corrected recently in a text for typing “payed” instead of “paid”. I was typing fast and didn’t reread what I wrote before sending it. Being corrected and the implication that I should be embarrassed honestly enraged me. Do you know what I meant when I typed “payed”?! Caring about verbal iq has to be a trait of people with mid iq larping as intellectuals. Language controls and restricts how we form thoughts. You can’t have high verbal iq truly be a free thinker or highly intelligent imo. It’s a social game, it’s pompous. The purpose is to communicate I can do that well enough with typos and slang.
lmao, you love being around pompous midwits so much you keep communicating on their board using language don't you, your iq is not even high enough to see the irony.
>>Yah, no I don’t want high verbal iq. I kinda hate language and the way it controls people.
high verbal iq is the only guarantee the roastie doesn't speak like negress
Women read for entertainment purposes exclusively (which is not always bad), but they exclusively read the following genres:
>Young adult
>Romance
>Porn
Red flag? Maybe. But any woman reader does this, so choose your battles I suppose. I'm probably more in this camp:
Speak for yourself, I was reading Godel, Escher, Bach in middle school. (I should probably go back and reread it, as I would surely get more out of it.)
"Speak for yourself" implies I am also a woman; I am not, and nothing in my post insinuates this. Too many words to read in the post, so you must have skimmed through, right? Then goes on to brag about shit she read as a pre-teen.
Classic woman "reader" illustrating my point.
Didn't mean to imply you were, but you're clearly basing your statement on some experience with or observation of the women you've known. (I'm assuming you're not just pulling the statement out of your ass.) You can speak for your own experience with women, but that's not all women.
>not all women
those israeli tricks don't work on me anymore
I am literally a woman who read Gödel, Escher, Bach when I was in middle school.
yallah habibi I will fly you to Belgium so you can marry me
Yellowed flag. It depends on the book
if a woman is intelligent enough to read then she's probably saving her virginity so move along
No woman saves her virginity in the year of our Lord 2024.
>Browses IQfy
>Leaves
Shit thread but when judging someone you need to judge by the sum of the parts and not just a single facet
Women read porn
Total red flag, once my ex told she read Dante's inferno, but i knew she was lying, she just wanted to sound intellectual and smart
I've only read specific niche topics, but then again I do not consume much media in general, or I at least try not to. I find it difficult to enjoy most media in general. I'm only interested in religious books, though I believe it only depends on the genre of books they're reading on.
What religion? Or any?
Christianity. I would like to read more on specific denominations, but most of my beliefs stem from experiences and with church, not due to reading. I've also noticed that most of the books I read are always depressing..
Well at any rate it's nice to meet another woman on this board (or I assume by the context you are) even if our outlooks on life are probably rather different.
It's nice to meet you. I have met people on IQfy discord servers (which I havent done in years), though there were some women who were cool on there. It's always nice to make other female friends.
If you wanted to exchange discords we could.
I think there are more of us here than what one would assume.
It's plausible, though many of the posters here talk and think in ways that feel very male. But perhaps some are women who have simply adapted to the board culture.
>most of my beliefs stem from experiences and with church, not due to reading.
NGMI
Matthew 4:4, Luke 4:4
>When you find out a woman is an avid reader is it a red flag?
>>When you find out a woman is it a red flag?
>>>When you find a woman is it a red flag?
>>>>>>When you a woman is it a red flag?
>>>>>>>>>>>>When you is it is a red flag.
>is a woman that’s an avid reader generally have certain negative social traits and attitudes?
Not really. The only thing I can think of is they are very defensive of what they read and like. If they like a book and you challenge their interpretation of it or question its quality they will pout and get mad and brand you as an butthole
Very few are actually confrontational enough to fight you over it and defend their view. So approach any subject with extreme care or just be a yes man to everything they say
You may think women will like someone who is strong-willed, but that does not apply to literary opinions
most the people I've ever seen read are women.
I've only ever had two conversations with other men about reading, one was a guy buying my used copy of roadside picnic, the other was an elderly man complaining about how complicated phones are and I compared it to a franz kafka novel which got a chuckle out of him.
I wish more men read, if anything women reading is normalised and not a red flag at all.